Hi
If you become a JW you can expect the following:
1. No more birthdays, Christmases, Easters, Halloweens, Thanksgivings. Period.
2. You can join OK, but try to get out if you change your mind? You will be marked and shunned by everyone JW, even the ones you thought were your friends.
3. All love is conditional there are strings attached.
4. If you raise a child to be a JW, that child will be absolutely miserable because of all the things they have to abstain from in school, in addition to the holidays I mentioned, joining clubs, playing sports, joining the band, etc., all "discouraged" (translate: forbidden).
5. You will be watched like a hawk, and if you dont put in enough hours every month going door to door peddling JW literature, if you miss too many meetings (5 hours PER WEEK), if your skirt is too short or sweater too low-cut, you will be reprimanded, and this can be a PUBLIC reprimand, too.
6. You are expected to forfeit your life, and that of your child, should either of you ever need a blood transfusion, you are expected to say NO even if it means you or your child will die.
7. You are not allowed to vote, serve in the military, salute the flag, or smoke,
8. Going door-to-door deserves another mention; it is an absolutely miserable activity knocking on peoples doors who are NOT glad to see you interrupt their Saturday morning, in all kinds of weather. This activity also costs you money; you are expected to pay for the stuff you sell and then turn in the profits, too plus gasoline and car repairs. You are also expected to schlep others around that dont have their own car. JWs believe they must do this in order to be saved.
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!