I always wanted to live in a place like stars hollow in Gilmore girls, where there is a real sense of community. Funny thing is, I was there all the time, just never realized it because I was a witness and isolated from most people and activities. So after I left, I've joined lots of causes and groups and my church, and seriously now I can't go to a fair or event without knowing people everywhere I look--and i love it!! Also when talking to people there is no invisible wall between me and them, that 'oh, they're worldly!' wall that kept me from opening up and being genuinely warm to non JW's.