"I love you and want the best for you."
"It made my heart rejoice to spend time with you [and your family]."
"We all have the time now. Jehovah knows our heart."
You're right "we all have the time now" to get to know one another and love one another unconditionally. How many people have died estranged from family because of shunning enforced by JWs? If you truly believe the time left for me and my family is coming to a close, why would you hold back your affections until we go to meetings, out in service and resume other JW activities? Can't you see how manipulative it is to do that? It's like an ex-wife refusing access to children unless child support payments are up to date, or withholding support payments unless visitations are granted. The everyone suffers in those circumstances, but mostly it's the children who miss out on the wonderful opportunity of having no-strings-attached relationships with grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins.
We have all been granted the gift of free will, and we have not chosen to be estranged from you, that has been your decision (bolstered by Watchtower teachings), and we respect that. We have not discussed anything with you out of respect for your faith and because we have no desire to interfere with your dedication or "lure you away"; we would never do that. But I hope that while you trust that Jehovah knows our hearts, he also knows where our hearts are and why we feel as we do, without any prejudice toward friends and family.
We would welcome you and your family with open arms, no matter the circumstances. I'm very disappointed that you feel otherwise.