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  Sample Disassociation Letter please?

  by LifesNotOver in

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  i want to send a disassociation letter to the elders at my old congregation.

  how do i address it and what wording do i use?

  i know it's not something i have to do, it's symbolic for me.

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  Guilt as Motivator

  by LifesNotOver in

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  i've just come across this idea: i've been feeling guilty about not contributing more to this forum, given all the help i've received here.

  i feel guilty that i haven't had it as bad as so many of you.

  i feel guilty that i didn't have any jw family/friends that shunned me when i left.

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  Birthday Wishes Welcome!

  by LifesNotOver in

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  many of you don't know me or won't remember me.

  i left the jw's and my husband and my home last september - forging a new life in a new town.

  i haven't posted here for many months, but have been reading most days.

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  Just curious - is apostasy grounds for divorce?

  by LifesNotOver in

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  i know only adultery is supposed to be grounds for "scriptural" divorce.

  i'm a wicked apostate in their eyes, but my believing husband and i still can't get a divorce that would allow him to remarry.

  we currently are separated - i have left him.

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  Cold war on homefront!

  by LifesNotOver in

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  a few months back i let it be known to my husband that i was no longer interested in anything jw related.

  when he took it to the elders, without actually divulging anything that might get me disfellowshipped like apostasy - well, he just basically told them i was all depressed and discouraged and everything and that i didn't want to be contacted by the elders about it.

  i don't know what he actually told them, word for word, or what they actually said to him word for word, but he told me they told him not to do anything spiritual with me at home anymore - no bible study, praying, daily text, meetings via phone, jw broadcasting, discussions, etc.

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  What is "marked"?

  by LifesNotOver in

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  i've been curious for a while ... what is it when people type "marked" in their posts?

  what does it mean and how does it work?

  thanks..

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  Just calling on our neighbours with a friendly message - Too Late! You Had Your Chance! You're All Gonna DIE!

  by LifesNotOver in

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  ... and by the way - love your house!

  i've always wanted one just like it!.

  feeling bitter this morning.

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  YMCA?

  by LifesNotOver in

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  my husband's gone to his meeting and i'm catching up with folks here on our forum.

  i'm sure i'm having a better time :) anyway, was just following some posts regarding the un and there happened to be a copy of a magazine article stating brothers wouldn't want to be joining the "y" because it was "christian".

  i think this was back in the 1950's (maybe not).

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  Bye and thanks for everything

  by LifesNotOver in

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  we really went at it this weekend.

  pretty ugly!

  well at least now the air is cleared.

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  LifesNotOver - Part Four

  by LifesNotOver in

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  so ... i don't know if any of this is even of interest any more, i know i'm getting kinda bored with it :) so many other more interesting stories out there.

  anyway, limped my way through 17 years being a jw until now.

  not a good jw mind you.

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