When I was married I made more than my spouse Most of the time. I was going through school too. Once she got a full time job and was making decent money, She surpassed me until I finished school and was able to enter the fulltime job market. With a degree, I got hired on at a company and surpassed her earning income. Did it effect us? Yes. When she made more money than me, she got on a power trip and always brought it up. Always said that because she made more money, she can decide how to spend the money. (not that we didn't share decisions, but now she took control) But once I started to make more than her, she acted different. Maybe she felt that she was supporting me or something and lost some respect. She didn't support me in fact, just supported her spending habits...LOL