Posts by Journeyman

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The Watchtower—Study Edition | January 2025 Husbands, Honor Your Wife

by RULES & REGULATIONS in

14 a husband who physically or verbally abuses his wife needs to take additional steps to repair his relationship with jehovah and with his wife.

what are these steps?

first, he recognizes that he has a serious problem.

Journeyman

There are two types of problematic WT articles - ones where the information given is wrong (and possibly even dangerous), and ones where the information itself is ok, but alternatives or further options are left out.

This article seems to be an example of the latter. I don't see anything wrong with what is specifically stated about the abusive man's behaviour and what he should do to change (apart from equating watching porn with being physically or verbally abusive - the two are not necessarily connected, although I am aware that research and evidence from many criminal cases shows a chronic porn habit can lead to a distorted and unhealthy view of women).

However, there is much that is omitted, as several people have pointed out.

Bear in mind that this part of the article is aimed at the offending husbands, so it wouldn't necessarily mention separation to avoid his cruelty. However, it should realistically state that an offending husband must recognise his wife's right to separate from him, even if only temporarily while he addresses his behaviour, and to call in secular authorities if he has broken the laws of the land (by domestic assault, criminal damage, etc).

Interestingly, I looked to see if there was a following article addressed to wives - they usually print these things together - but there is none. So I wonder if they're finally recognising they have a serious problem with abusive husbands? If so, it's probably fed by the constant talk about accepting headship, along with the adulation poured on elders (especially those who 'pioneer') regardless of their actual character and personality traits. That would easily inflate the egos of men who already have an exaggerated sense of their own importance, and many experiences from people on here have highlighted there are a lot of those in the congregations out there!

Edited to add: Also, as several of you on here pointed out, there is no mention of what a husband should do if HE is the victim of abuse from his spouse. Again, this seems to be a glaring omission, given what even the Org says about "critical times" meaning the behaviour of many people today is selfish and/or aggressive. They should acknowledge that men can be victims too, Even if the odds are much smaller, the consequences are still just as devastating for the individuals concerned and the family around them,

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Convention attendance

by joe134cd in

just heard from a pimi cousin who recently attended a convention, and remarked about the low attendance.

peak was about 500. i remember that circuit, in years past, had attendances of 1000+.

it's been over a decade now since i last attended a jw convention.

Journeyman

I can't imagine the Org would dump Circuit Overseers - they need some sort of arrangement to monitor the actions of local elders and congregations and try to keep them in line with the mothership.

But then again, GB2.0 (or is it even GB2.5 by now?) are making a lot of surprising changes lately, so who knows?

As for the original topic, I'm sure total attendance numbers are falling overall across much of North America and Europe. Some regions might still see a more steady attendance than others, and patterns are hard to identify for certain yet, when many congregations and even whole circuits are being rearranged, but there are too many anecdotal stories of empty seats to be coincidental, or just an anomaly.

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follower of Eric Wilson, abusive to single women covered by paying sums of money to support Beroean Pickets tourism trips.

by buzkid in

susanne eigenheer is an ex-jw and suffered religious abuse in eric wilson's group.

her personal statement and experiences within the beroean pickets study groups was one of betrayal where she was taken advantage of financially.

in one text conversation, wendy wiens disfellowshiped susanne and demanded an apology from her.

Journeyman

I used to watch Beroean Pickets quite regularly, and generally found Eric Wilson calm, reasonable and honest. I've not looked at his material for quite a while though, and I don't particularly intend to dive into this row either. But again, it does show the danger of putting too much trust in "mortal man in whom there is no salvation".

It's always instructive to see how someone reacts to an accusation. Recently in the UK, we've had a well-known TV personality accused of making sexual advances and offensive comments to female guests on his programme. His response was, in part, to say that his critics were all "middle-class women of a certain age" - hardly the statement of someone who is contrite or is humble in defending himself. Again, it was a dispute I hadn't followed closely and I had no personal view of the celebrity concerned either way, but hearing his choice of words in defence instantly made me suspect the accusations were fully justified.

As regards jumping from one "cult" to another, I think these words are apt:
Jesus answered: Watch out that no one deceives you. For many will come in my name, claiming, 'I am the Messiah,' and will deceive many [...] and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. [...]
At that time if anyone says to you 'Look, here is the Messiah!' or 'There he is!' do not believe it. For false messiahs and false prophets will appear and perform great signs and wonders to deceive, if possible, even the elect."

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Convention attendance

by joe134cd in

just heard from a pimi cousin who recently attended a convention, and remarked about the low attendance.

peak was about 500. i remember that circuit, in years past, had attendances of 1000+.

it's been over a decade now since i last attended a jw convention.

Journeyman

IIRC, the one and two-day events are "Assemblies" (held within one circuit) and the longer 3-day (used to be even longer) ones, usually in the summer here in the UK, are "Conventions" (held with multiple circuits). It's been that way for at least a couple of decades.

Back in 2006, it was definitely officially a "Convention" not an "Assembly". (Just Google 2006 District Convention and you'll see.)

Maybe locally bros informally called it an 'assembly', especially if it was held at a JW assembly hall rather than a football stadium or conference centre?

The main change was from "District Convention" to "Regional Convention", largely because they got rid of 'districts' (including 'sacking' the former District Overseers).

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Is it just me, or is Watchtower lowering its standards?

by ukpimo in

in the past, we used to hear talks on:.

avoiding sexual immorality and porn, as well as masturbation and other sexual practices.

why evolution cannot possibly be true.

Journeyman

I agree about the watering down of requirements and reduction of standards. However, I disagree about this bit:

What next? I cannot see Watchtower making any more significant changes for some time.

The current GB have shown, with the various and seemingly random changes of the last couple of years, they they are not averse to changing whatever they want to, whenever they feel like it. Including changing members of the GB itself.

If, as many suspect, most of their changes are driven by financial issues, a realisation they cannot control day-to-day behaviour any more, or a desire to cosy up to 'secular' authorities, then there's no reason to suspect there may not be other unexpected (or perhaps even long hoped-for) changes in the pipeline.

Recent GB talks have even continued to hint at more changes to come, and with "new blood" on the GB and the oldest members looking like they don't have long left, I think we can expect to see more "adjustments".

Whether any of them will be truly radical, and what effect they will have on the R&F and on numbers at meetings and doing ministry, remains to be seen though. The only aspects that won't change are:
1) Obey the GB without question
2) give money, and
3) put "kingdom interests" first (ie: do more for the organisation).

And of course, linked to 1) is accept all changes without dispute, because according to them we are "so close" to the end and "all of us must be ready to obey any instructions we may receive, whether these appear sound from a strategic or human standpoint or not". (WT 15/11/2013)

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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars (continued)

by Simon in

jw
friends

uh oh, looks like the mega thread gave up the ghost, so while i investigate / fix it just continue the discussion here .... it's been a long 9 years lloyd evans / john cedars.

Journeyman

So, we've now had several days since three major headlines which our "boy" could've covered if he was really bothered.

1) The news about Ramapo construction going ahead;

2) The statistical 'highlights' from the 2023-4 JW service year report;

3) The news about the Archbishop of Canterbury resigning over CSA in the CofE church - a story which has thrown the spotlight back on the inadequacy of IICSA, the inquiry which he was involved in (and was only too keen to be seen at - and to share his opinions with the world - at the time).

Yet... not a peep on any of those so far. But he has done another 'voicemail' item (recycling content provided by his audience) and made a video about "all the beard jokes at the Annual Meeting". So that's great then.

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2024 year Highlights: JWs hit 9 million Publishers

by Sanchy in

jw
friends

watchtower put out some highlights for the 2024 service year:.

average publishers: 8,828,124. peak publishers: 9,043,460. a 43.2 percent increase in "those who returned to jehovah", meaning 65,816 were reinstated.

baptized: 296,267. memorial attendance: 21,119,442. missing stat: number of partakers .. womp womp.

Journeyman

I wonder if they started counting 'inactive' publishers that faded. No hour requirement, not df or da, add 'em back as a publisher.

You still have to verify you've done some ministry each month, but now that's as easy as just messaging your group overseer and/or the congregation secretary to say "yes I did some ministry last month". No need to give specifics (unless you're a reg or aux pioneer, in which case you still have to report hours).

I've never heard of having to download a specific app to report it though. Not here in the UK anyway.

So even though known inactives would still not be counted, any JW previously 'approved' for ministry and active could claim they're still doing it even if they're not any more (or if they're only doing very token service like offering one person a tract at a bus stop once a month or something).

It would depend on the congregation you're in I suppose, and how 'zealous'(tm) your elders are. If it's an active congregation and the elders are strict, then you would probably be expected to be seen at groups and out with others on house to house work, and the elders might still chase you for 'evidence' of what you're doing. But in other places, probably not so much.

Vidiot is right in that the numbers the GB choose to report are becoming less and less meaningful, because they are becoming easier to fake or fudge. They are leaving out more telling figures, or changing the way they are calculated to make it impossible to track real trends - in a method not unlike the tricks governments use for things like unemployment and crime statistics, etc.

About the only figure which is still reliable is the Memorial attendance, but that is no indicator of future growth, since many people go to the Memorial every year but do nothing else - the so-called "missing millions"!

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End within 2 years (again)

by road to nowhere in

an old elder friend from out of town stopped to see my ailing wife.

more than the locals do.

he said elder school emphasized 2 years and the existing body will be the leaders through persecution and tribulation.

Journeyman

I dont believe Lett is as stupid in real life as he acts in front of a camera or on stage.

Yeah, I tend to agree that Lett is not really the 'bumbling uncle' figure that he comes across as.as.

I suspect his money gives him more power and influence in the GB than many might realise.

I seem to remember someone posting a couple of years ago (on here, or maybe a repost from Reddit?) that they knew some of the Lett family and M.S. is/was actually quite a ruthless businessman and not at like the image he used to play up on JW broadcasts. Did I remember that correctly? It seems quite likely to me.

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Ramapo project approved

by dropoffyourkeylee in

news is that the ramapo project has been approved by authorities and can move forward..

Journeyman

Oh, great. Yet another reason for WT to ask for more money.

And for the GB to release a string of more construction progress puff pieces in broadcasts for months to come, that claim that all this work is to "God's glory", while all the time promoting their own organisation with sweeping overhead shots of building sites, staged shots of men in suits gazing thoughtfully at laptops and blueprints, and gullible Witnesses smiling cheesily in hardhats and overalls as their free labour is exploited to build another future billion-dollar property sale. We've seen it all before too many times already!

The crazy thing is that the Org claim that the reason why it's ok to build such facilities now, supposedly so close to "the end", is that they can be used in the "new world" afterwards.

Yet NOWHERE in scripture are Christians told to prepare facilities for the end of the current "system of things". In fact, quite the opposite. Several verses warn that the best Christians should expect to escape with is their lives, and in verses like Matthew 6:19–21 Jesus warned against trying to "store up things on the earth". Isn't that exactly what building expensive facilities now with the idea of still using them after Armageddon is doing?

Who says you will get to use those facilities, even if Armageddon happens as you anticipate and you are fortunate enough to survive?

It all smacks of arrogance, and ties in with my thoughts in another thread that the Org is putting too much emphasis towards encouraging Witnesses to imagine very specific details of how they want to live in Paradise. Yet nowhere in that picture is respect shown for what the God and the King they supposedly worship will want instead. Of course, the GB presume to know that already, and to be doing "the will of the Father" (and the Son).

Jesus added: "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also". He also warned his disciples in Mark Ch 13 against being obsessed with mere buildings, admiring the stones of the temple. It seems the WT Org have the same problem, being obsessed with their facilities - first the likes of Brooklyn and Mill Hill, now of places like Warwick, Chelmsford and soon, Ramapo. Obsessed with the earthly and the physical, rather than the spiritual.

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What is Your Favorite WT Lie?

by Sea Breeze in

i would like to start a thread on lies that the watchtower and their reps have told.

surely we all have one or two that truly sticks out in our memories, no matter how much we would like to forget.

my favorite wt lie: the reason they don't want to release the name of the "scholars" who worked on the new world translation is because they do not want to accept "glory and honor" from others.

Journeyman

Another one is related to their refusal to "repent" for past errors and the severe effects they've had on thousands of the R&F over the decades, by simply referring to them as "clarifications of understanding" or some such.

Every time they do a screeching U-turn on a prediction or teaching, there is a noticeable absence of "Sorry, we messed up on that one" and no words of regret to Witnesses who have suffered, been disfellowshipped for disagreeing with what has now become their own teaching, or even died. Worse, they often even blame these ones for "allowing themselves to be misled" - effectively blaming them for doing what they were told they had to - for example over the 1975 debacle.