About Atheist and helping others and survival of the fittest.
Natural selection got us where we are today. Abiogenesis may have started it all, and genes of the strong should succeed. But, now that we have advanced enough to have support systems and structured care that doesn't mean someone with an Atheistic or Agnostic outlook wouldn't help another person. Not at all. You just don't understand it because you are not an agnostic or atheist right now.
The very fact that there is no grand plan or grand purpose is what makes me NOW want to help more. Before as a witness I thought it would all turn out okay because god would just fix it all. Now, I see that every day I have to try to do something for others and the world. I have joined a cause that matters to me since leaving. I am teaching my child to give back or pay it forward. WE, all of us, you and I have to do something! We are going to be the future and the reason this human race travels in space in a few hundred years, or leaves earth for a new home in a few million.
Hundreds of years from now, no one will remember me. But, if my daily attempts to make a change and help others cause them to do one good thing too, then the eventual end to racism and prejudice or the eventual transformation into a species that takes care of all of its children will be my legacy. What I do every day is small. What I do can't be measured in success. But, if everyone did something every day instead of waiting on god, the world WOULD be a better place. All I can do is set an example and motivate others to do good too. All I can do is teach my child and make sure he grows up to be the type of person who also tries to make a difference every day. What I do matters.
You didn't mean it in a condescending way or a mean spirited way I don't think DD. But, you were wrong, and I need to point it out. Whether or not you believe in god you CAN and SHOULD make a difference every day. How we got here does not have much to do with where we go from here. We choose our future and we make it happen.