Hello & welcome to our forum.
I haven't read the complete thread - so winging it here. I'm a jw woman of 30 yrs, started studying because the guy I was dating was a jw "returning to The Truth". Thus, my journey began....and it wasn't all bad - but a LOT of it was.
Would I have been better off not becoming a jw? YES. Why? I could have joined another religion not so oppressive of women & children. We are the ignored, second-class members of the JW's....and anyone who tells you different is lying. Everything is geared to men - and primarily white men. Btw, men are oppressed also....it's just that women & children are oppressed more.
Do you realize that after you marry a jw man - (depending on where you live) - you won't even be able to ask a question to elders without first asking your husband that question....because he has headship over you, and you'd be "overstepping" your boundaries. I know that cutie from personal experience.
Jehovah's Witnesses are deemed by some as a cult, by others - a very high control fundamentalist group. It is both of these.....and it is a money-making, book selling corporation masking as a religion. Local JW's are the non-paid salesmen. Nothing more to the corporation.
Take care, think & read the pros AND cons!
waiting