real shock i know that a jw would do that.
i found out today that my mom took my son to the kh behind my back when she was in town visiting.
he's just a little baby so he will have no memories of it.
Sass,
Unfortunately I think this is what will drive us apart. I cannot believe he did not back me up. There is no way it cannot affect our relationship. I feel I have to stand my ground on this. If I don't my mom will walk all over me in the future where the baby is concerned. I am not going to let her have contact until she can respect my wishes. If he goes ahead and allows contact I really feel I have no choice but to show him the door. I already told him this was a deal breaker for me.
real shock i know that a jw would do that.
i found out today that my mom took my son to the kh behind my back when she was in town visiting.
he's just a little baby so he will have no memories of it.
The really sad part is I have showed him those pictures. He acted like he was horrified when he saw them and I thought he got it back then but I was wrong. He knows about their blood policies and shunning. I have tried to educate him. I am pretty sure I can reason with him about not letting my mom take Dylan to meetings or witnessing to him but I know he will allow some kind of contact. I don't think she should be allowed any contact until she can honor my wishes. She is going to do whatever the hell she wants where the baby is concerned if he does not supervise the visits. Why can't he see that??!!! He just does not understand my family is not normal so therefore he thinks I am not being reasonable. I told him that if he plans or his parents plan to take Dylan to the Catholic church when he is older my mom will undermine what he is being taught first chance she gets. He does not think that will happen. He is beyond clueless. I truly believe he thinks my mom is some misguided poor lady who can't think for herself but since she loves her grandson she should have a lot of access to him. LT I will ask him if he will speak to you but I know he will say no. Thanks for the offer anyway.
real shock i know that a jw would do that.
i found out today that my mom took my son to the kh behind my back when she was in town visiting.
he's just a little baby so he will have no memories of it.
I always knew that my mom would take my son to the meetings first chance she got. That is why I decided to protect her relationship with her grandson by not letting her be in the position to do it. I never let her take him on meeting nights. For the most part I have always been there or another family member when she has contact. What really upset me is my sons father not respecting my wishes on this. I have been very very clear where I stand on this.
We talked some more this morning and he said that he did not think cutting my mom out of our sons life was in his best interest so he would allow contact between them. He also said that if I chose to cut her out of my life that was my decision and he would make sure she did not come to the house. It took all my strength not to go postal on him. He just does not get it. After talking to my brother I realized that if I break up with him I will only have my son 50% of the time so I decided not to end the relationship just yet (we have many other issues as well). I am determined to make him see what a destructive cult the witnesses are.
real shock i know that a jw would do that.
i found out today that my mom took my son to the kh behind my back when she was in town visiting.
he's just a little baby so he will have no memories of it.
Real shock I know that a JW would do that. I found out today that my mom took my son to the KH behind my back when she was in town visiting. He's just a little baby so he will have no memories of it. She was really sneaky about it to. We live 1200 miles apart but she chose to come when I was out of town on a business trip for 5 days. My son was with his dad. I have been very clear with him that I do not want my mom taking him on a Sunday morning or on Tues and Thursday night.
I have told my sons father that she will take him straight to the KH. Did he listen to me??? Oh hell no. He let her take him and she went to the KH. I am livid with him and he has accused me of over reacting. I told him to go to KH and sit his ass down for 2 hours and listen to that drivel and see how he would like it. I have talked till I am blue in the face about how destructive that cult is and even he was disgusted by some of their beliefs. I guess not enough. I told my mom to lose my number and address. I know she is going to go thru him if she wants to see her grandson. He told me that cutting off my mother was a cruel thing to do and that I should rethink it. I told him that this was a deal breaker for me and I could not be in a relationship with a man who did not respect my wishes on this. We have not spoken about it since but I cannot believe he is willing to put our relationship at risk over this.
i'm shocked!
if you remember my experience, in a nutshell, basically my ex-bethelite ex pioneer husband cheated on me with an older "worldly woman" from his job and left me suddenly.
i had no idea that we had trouble with our marriage, however, when i discovered the love letters from the other woman, he moved out, and a week after that, i received divorce papers.
You know it is not at all unusal for the mistress to email the wife. I see it all the time in my job. It floors me they do it and its such a stupid thing to do. It provides great ammo to the other side when it comes to getting a good settlement. The mistress gets her jabs in but in the end it can come at a very high cost especially if the spouse does not want their behavior exposed publically. Nothing is more embarrassing apparently than having your dirty laundary aired in public or even worse have it on public record.
I keep in touch with our clients well after the divorces are done and I have found that the ones that had an affair very very few of them are still with the person they had the affair with. Most seemed to crash and burn within a year.
got this experience from another message board.... ==========================================================.
from craigslist.
i'll try to sum up a funny story that happened a few years ago:.
My brother got slapped with a paternity suit last year by a girl he met at a bar. She said the condom was defective and he was the father. She raised all kinds of hell when he told her he did not believe the baby was his and would not get one red cent out of him without a DNA test. A process server was at his door 8 months later. He went to a lawyer, denied paternity and went to the lab a few weeks later. Of course he was excluded as the father. He heard later on 2 other men had been tested and they were excluded as well. I am glad this happened to him. Its made him more cautious of the women he sleeps with.
i was watching this show in passing and they had a woman on there that said she loved her husband more than her children.
she said by putting her husband first it made her marriage stronger and happier and therefore it made her a better mother.. i did a double take when i heard that.
i don't think it is normal to love a spouse more than your child.
I was watching this show in passing and they had a woman on there that said she loved her husband more than her children. She said by putting her husband first it made her marriage stronger and happier and therefore it made her a better mother.
I did a double take when I heard that. I don't think it is normal to love a spouse more than your child. I think there must be something wrong with the woman. Maybe she needs counseling or something,
i find myself in a situation that has me very confused.
id like your input on this.
i work for a large company (over 550 employees) and as such, romantic and or sexual relationships between employees tend to develop every once in a while.
If you are compatible I don't think age should matter. My SO is 11 years older than me and we don't have a lot in common. If not for our son I don't think I would have gotten so deeply involved with him. He sometimes treats me like a child and it pisses me off to no end.
I say if you are attracted to this woman (not girl) I say go for it. There is nothing creepy about it.
i had no idea what to expect!...................as in the case of most jws.
since sex is strickly forbidden before marriage.
at the time (1970's) kissing was even frowned at too.
My first time was with someone very experienced. I am so glad I picked someone who was experienced. I heard all these stories from my friends about how bad and awkard their first time was. I did not have to deal with that.
i read that david beckham is leaving real madrid and coming to the us to play for the la galaxy.
soccer is not that popular in the us and that is a obscene amount of money to pay a player and i am surprised that david beckham would want to finish out his career playing in the us.
i guess for $250 million anyone would.
I read that David Beckham is leaving Real Madrid and coming to the US to play for the LA Galaxy. Soccer is not that popular in the US and that is a obscene amount of money to pay a player and I am surprised that David Beckham would want to finish out his career playing in the US. I guess for $250 million anyone would. I read that Real Madrid wanted to renew his contract. Do you think Manchester United would have taken him back? Imo the owner of the LA Galaxy made a bad investment. I know he is an awesome player but noway is he going to make back $250 million in ticket sales and merchandise over 5 years. Hell the LA Galaxy is not even considered a good team. I was just surprised when I read about the deal. Opinions? Thoughts?
