Brummie,
Want some good advice from experience ? I would not tell her that your an ex because the minute you do they through up red flags and don`t even give you the time of day. It`s fuuny how it works because if your just the average person next door they do listen but the second your an ex Oh !!!!! they never listen to a single thing you have to say and they do anything and everything they can to avoid you. So I personally think that if you want to get your message across don`t tell her any of your experience in their stinkin lyin religion.
SOJ, I feel sorry for you because you show your true colors here with your angry and evil words. I think you are a very confused person. I also know that if your elders knew you were here in this group you would be disfellowshipped. You also know that. So I think you should dig way deep inside your heart and your mind and figure out why your really here. Anyone of us would be more than glad to calmly share the real truth with you but you need to want to know what that truth is. Let me tell you friend what you are protecting is a lie and a very evil faith. Pull your ass out of the gutter because all your doing now is digging your grave even a little deeper. God be with you....