ladies!
here are 5 secrets to a great relationship that every woman needs to know
1. it is important to find a man who works around the house, occasionally cooks and cleans and who has a job.
LADIES! HERE ARE 5 SECRETS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP THAT EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO KNOW
1. It is important to find a man who works around the house, occasionally cooks and cleans and who has a job.
2. It is important to find a man who makes you laugh.
3. It is important to find a man who is dependable and doesn't lie.
4. It is important to find a man who's good in bed and who loves to have sex with you.
5. It is important that these four men never meet.
Love,
ESTEE
wanted to do this to remember why i want to be here......i'd also like to know some of your likes....if you care to share..... 1. rainstorms.
2. black kittens with yellow eyes.
3. wind chimes.
Things I like?. . .Titania? (Disclaimer: Not in any special order)
Ballroom dancing
Shoes with high heels and stocking hose (yeah!)
My lovely red hair with a blond streak (I blame "things" on my blond streak)
Sex (oral, too. . .shhhhhh! )
Men (gotta love 'em!)
Roses
Fluffy kitty cats
My computer
Hair and Body glitter and all other shiny things (like glittery ballroom gowns)
Men (gotta love 'em!)
Simon's forum
Wind chimes
Walking in a warm rain
Stationery Stores? <giggle>
(((((Lots an' lotsa Hugs)))))
My good friends
Men (gotta love 'em!)
Long walks in the country (with someone special)
ESTEE cologne
Breakfast in bed
Okay. . . I better stop now. . . .
Love,
ESTEE
a couple of months ago, i wrote asking this forum for information about the episcopalians.
many of you answered and i was intrigued by your replies.
i was finally able to attend a service today and enjoyed it very much.
((((Robdar!))))
I'm happy for ya, Robyn! I know it is difficult to attempt going to an organized religion of any sort, after the jws. . .just soooooo hard to do! Takes a lot of determination.
I too, found a place that I love to attend. . .but not before a LOT of church shopping! So many places just felt. . .ummmm. . .toooo "jw-ish". . .I now attend the "Centre for Positive Living". . .and I feel "at home" there. It is New Age, non-denominational. . . They have a 20-minute meditation before the service, and I really love that. I feel like I am accepted there . . .in all my . . . . . . . .errrrr. . .human-ness!!!
Love,
Esther
i was hoping to enjoy the championship game between the eagles and the bucs.. but no more than 5 or 10 minutes into the game, a budweiser ad comes on that uses a very obvious double entendre (a conversation between a man and woman that revolves around the very large sweatshirt she is wearing.
she makes comments like, "small ones are ok, but big ones just feel better.
" the commercial closes with her remarking about his "small hands".).
what signs did you give, when you started drifting away?
were you able to tell who was slowly drifting away in you congregation just by their attitude?edited by - jh on 19 january 2003 19:18:56.
The ever-strengthening desire to take along a sub-machine gun in my meeting/service bag?
Rat-tat-tat-tat-tat-tat-tat-tat!
GAWD!!!. . .I honestly didn't know I had that in meeee!! LOL!!!
ESTEE
my last therapy session was all about the "truth".
after many sessions i finally brought up the thought that maybe some of my depression and low self-esteem issues have to do with spending 40 years in a high-control religion.. i won't bore you with all the details but some of the highlights of what i said bothers me are:.
my never feeling like i am doing enough or are good enough.. having regrets about missed opportunities and having let others control my life.. constant changing of doctrine and dates.
(((((Far North)))))
Welcome to the forum!!
I too, have spent a good maaaaaaany sessions of therapy dealing with jw issues. Don't beat yourself up because it is taking time to come to terms with all of it. It took years and years of indoctrination to get to the point you found yourself at. It will take time to de-program and re-program yourself, as well.
My sense is that a therapist will help us find a healthier path. The walk is still ours and it will be a long one, and there will be challenges along the way. At least now you are choosing your path. It is a self-directed path, rather than a path that was chosen FOR you. You will walk at your own pace now. You may stop and look at the scenery along the way now. You may ask questions now. You will do what feels healthy for you.
For me, this forum feels like a healthy place to start. . .
By the way, my email is open if you want to talk, I'm also on MSN Messenger. . .
Love,
ESTEE
way up here in the great white north we have an epidemic of full amputee dogs.it comes from laying in the snow too long ,the dogs legs freeze and they have to be cut off..i need your money so i can buy skateboards.i can strap the dogs to the boards and take them for a walk.right now these dogs are useless and nobody wants them.what good is a watch dog that just lays there and barks?burglars just step over them while they`re yapping.you can`t play frisbe with them unless your a really good aim.it`s embarrassing to take them out for a drag,they look like an inner tube at the back of a speed boat.commands like:sit,stay,sic-em are meaningless.these dogs spend thier lives with a plate of food in front of them and alot of newspapers behind them.send all the money you can,i won`t use much of it for beer...outlaw .
edited by - outlaw on 19 january 2003 16:22:6edited by - outlaw on 19 january 2003 19:29:32.
LOL@OUTLAW !!!!!
What a "twisted" sense of humor!!! What were you ON when you devised this plan?
ESTEE
well, today was 'wash day' at the laundromat.
it is also the time that i rid the laundromat of the propaganda that seems to collect there.. you know what i mean.
it seems to be a collection point for watchtower and awakes that jws seem to want to leave there.. today, i hit the jackpot!
(((((Jim_TX!)))))
Way to go, Jim_TX!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm proud of ya!!!
Responsibility to the community and all that. . .
ESTEE
as witnesses, we were admonished to never look at horoscopes because they are demonic.
many jw's that i knew of would not even look at a fortune cookie because they could be "demonized".
i read my gemini everyday.
Libra here!!! . . .October 17. . . I read mine every day!! Sometimes it seems to fit, othertimes not.
Blondie, the answer to my question was "Without a Doubt"! Hope it works!!!
Yaaaaay!!!!
ESTEE
wooooooooooo hoooooooooooo i finally became a jedi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
now where is blondie with my light saber?????
lol .
(((((Jesika!!!)))))
Cool!!!!!!!!!! You made jedi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I saw your posts were getting near the 1000 mark. . . and I didn't want to miss this!!!
<getting a visual on Jesika with a lightsabre> . . .YIKES!!! Would you watch where you are pointing that thing?!!!
Anyway. . .Congratulations, Jes!! We love you to pieces!!!
ESTEE
