i promise you one thing............... when you move out of your parents realm of influence and pay your own bills.......... it goes along way towards makeing you ready for a relationship which can lead to marriage.
at least it did for me
hi everyone back in may i wrote about marrying my b/f whose not a witness...the advice you all gave was very helpful...however my b/f has decided that it would be better for us to be friends for a while while i sort out what i want and he needs to do the same...i agreed with him..but its been very hard.... he says that my parents are influencing me so much,which is true.
i want to move out and live on my own for a while after i graduate next june....so thats my plan for now.....i have a job and my school schedule all planned out..i just need to save money....i still have feelings for him but i hurt him in the past with my indecisiveness and he doesnt want to go through that again and i dont blame him...i need the space to figure myself out some more...but we still talk all the time....today he said that he just wants me to get myself together and that he'll wait for me....while he gets himself together with school and stuff,which is what i want.....so thats how it is for now...no marriage in the next year or so....i will be doing what you all said finishing school, meeting new ppl, trying to have fun(with the limited freedom my parents give me), move out and live on my own first ....then see where we stand.......
thats all for now....bye
i promise you one thing............... when you move out of your parents realm of influence and pay your own bills.......... it goes along way towards makeing you ready for a relationship which can lead to marriage.
at least it did for me
one of the common copouts used by witnesses when they are confronted with the real truth about the watchtower is this:.
"oh you've just been talking to apostates and disfellowshipped ones, or you've been reading their literature.
they can't be trusted.".
jim jones.......... wasnt he of the annointed........... lol
the "judicial loophole" thread gave me a thought- what would happen if someone faded a la moving far away but then later decided to start all over again and pretend to know nothing about jws and go through the motions of becoming a jw again?
would there be a record of your first baptism on file at hq?
if so, what if you deny that it's you, that someone else just has the same name?
FACT: i know someone who did just this very thing. he was dfed in another country, immigrated to the us and when he inevitably got called on responded and got baptised........ a year or so later is ms............. then he said something to an elder that made him start thinking.............
this guy said he never heard of jws before when he first got called on in the states........ then later on spoke about how they did things in his country of origin.................. these same brothers were apparently considering him for elder............... idiot couldnt keep his mouth shut long enough and when questioned broke and told them everything........ dfed instantly for being unrepentant...................
i wish he would have continuted untill he was super elder........ then assistant circuit overseer..............
then full time circuit overseer............. then district............................... then meet someone from his old cong
anyone wanna try that? lol.......... not for all the money in the world myself
hi,i'm looking for anybody that was in the ardmore area from the mid 70's to the mid 90's.sooner7nc
honestly it dosent take much to beat olive garden......... its kinda like the fast food version of good italian...... i prefer carabbas..............mmmmmmmmmm damn now im hungry
from the age of ca.
7 to the age of ca.
21, i joined about 10-12 quick builds in norway.
hope by cleaning up the mess you mean the shrapnel not where he soiled himself lol
how yall doin?.
all my relatives are in town tday,from south texas, at my moms, fixin to get some dinner, and they will all come at me, where have you been?, not at the hall?.
and i took my kids trick or treating last nite, i know they wont shutup, the little ones are 9,im just gonna keep asking for more pie!!!!.
Instead of you squirming, make them squirm. Have the children dress up in their costumes, ring the bell and when the relatives come to the door say "trick or treat" and then "November (April) Fools!!! At the supper table talk about how hungry you are for turkey, stuffing and pumpkin pie. That should break the ice for everyone
dude........... you stole my post lol.......... you know what they say about great minds.......
yo big D eat some damn pecan pie for me k
PG of the......... why should i squirm...... when they can class
military men are just dumb stupid animals to be used as pawns in foreign policy
but they get to shoot big ass guns........................... i know people who joined up solely for that purpose
they nagged the hell outta me cause they said i fit their test profile for nuclear science................ damn wish i coulda jumped in then....... free college and woulda been done before this fiasco.
so much for a loving god if you're a bible apologist and take genesis literally.
"after he drove the man out, he placed on the east side of the garden of eden cherubim and a *flaming sword* flashing back and forth to guard the way to the tree of life.
" genesis 3:24 niv .
a flameing sword................ ill take 2 please
hi,i'm looking for anybody that was in the ardmore area from the mid 70's to the mid 90's.sooner7nc
ohhhhhhhh nooooooooooo are we gonna take this to the mountain oysters theme again so we can be deleted lol
feeling very sad as my youngest son is making plans to move out by next month.
his older brother and himself plan on renting an apartment together and they just went to look at one in their price range.. yes i can have a guest bedroom now and a spotless bath for anyone visiting....... just feeling very sad about the youngest ready to be on his way which is only right.
i suppose i won't feel so sad when we get the first request for financial assistance.. r..
lol so there will be a new mattress being introduced to your vacume cleaner very shortly i take it.