OFG,
For the most part I am for legalized pot IF it is controlled. But pot isn't the benign weed that you are trying to make it out to be. It does affect some people differently than others. Some do get uncontrolled paranoia. Some vomit, some have seizures. Some drop out and are no longer productive members of society. I have a couple of g/f that have done this. They smoke constantly and then wonder why they can't make it in the real world. Both have applied for public assistance claiming depression. The truth is, their depression is exacerbated by the weed.
Again, I have no problems with weed for medicinal purposes as long as the person isn't self medicating and has gotten the prescription from a physician.