The poor dude might have his family destroyed for being a normal guy... sad and pathetic.
Elder admits to porn problem
by doinmypart 59 Replies latest jw friends
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Sparkplug
Some on our BOE are a tough bunch. Because this elder admitted there was some manipulation of reproductive ------ by dancer on several occasions, he might have to be DF and his wife has grounds for divorce. The judicial committee hasn't even met with him yet and they're already speculating on DF & divorce...so much for compassion. No concern for him, his wife, or children.
I was thinking the same. God must really work fast on them. Oh boy. And I am not sure I could sit still and watch this man say all that. I think I would have wanted to rush over to him cover his mouth and say...ixnae on the upidstay. SHUT THE F***K UP! DONTEver give them yourself again. Ahh that had to be so dang hard. Actually I say that as if you had wanted to...Maybe you didn't, but I really would want to. WTF kind of sick org has grown men crying over porn and confessing. that is his and his wifes and Gods if he so chooses to believe in a God and that porn is wrong. Maybe his wife would like it if we were not made so uptight as JW wives.
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trevor
Naked women on the web. I never heard the like. Which buttons do I press? Do I have to pay?
I always suspected that these elders were a bunch of wankers!
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doinmypart
IP - Man, you are funny! I thought about it, but there is no way I would surrender to these men in such a way.
Sparkplug - I felt bad for the brother. I wanted to tell him to shut the hell up, it isn't our business to know such things. But what do you do? This is his belief system, if he felt the need to cleanse & purge in such a way, well best of luck to him. I'm hoping he sees the truth behind the WTS from the treatment he's about to receive and get out of JW land.
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Sparkplug
This is his belief system, if he felt the need to cleanse & purge in such a way, well best of luck to him. I'm hoping he sees the truth behind the WTS from the treatment he's about to receive and get out of JW land.
Hopefully he gets out. We all work to get over the crap we put ourselves thru by confession when we were JW's. Poor guy, that so sucks.
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NewYork44M
Because this elder admitted there was some manipulation of reproductive ------ by dancer on several occasions, he might have to be DF and his wife has grounds for divorce.
I cannot believe admitting something like that to a bunch of old men. Each of these elders are going to tell their wives, each of these wives will tell their friends. Within a week the whole congregation will be consumed by the acts of this man.
It is unbelievable what guilt can do.
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FlyingHighNow
What is terribly sad about this is that marriages can sometimes recover from porn/stripper addictions and even full blown adultery. JW's teach you to believe you are almost obligated to divorce under such circumstances. I believe a marriage and children are worth the effort and heart it takes to cope with and correct something like this. Couples should at least consider trying to work things out.
Divorce isn't an easy solution either. You don't always get the happy results you think you will.
The brothers who came up with this policy are as guilty as the fiasco over oral and anal sex. I think they're going to be doing some heavy community service once they leave this world.
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purplesofa
It is unbelievable what guilt can do.
amen
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Gary1914
The only ones left qualifying will be the real hard asses who have no sympathy for anyone.
And also the slick two faced elders who don't really believe and who are only in it for the power that being an elder gives them.
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minimus
Sorry to hear this guy is going to ruin his family life because of his confession. He's probably a "normal" guy that's never experienced any fun.