Well, if his wife allowed him to blow the dust of her taco once and a while, maybe he wouldn't have had to take matters into his own hands. Pun intended.
Sinus!!! That is exactly what an elder said when I told him my husband( not a JW) molested my daughter,Not exactly how YOU expressed it but with the same message!! If I give it when ever he wanted it. My hubby wouldnt have done it ---so your comment irked me
Sorry about that! Thats not how I meant it. Basically from my experience both men and women in the JW's seem to have sexual repression. All I was saying is that it takes TWO for a marriage to work. have known many women and some men, though not generally, that withhold sex as a form of punishment. All I'm saying is that it seems he was not having relations at home and had to go elsewhere to satisfy his desires, right or wrong.
In your situation that is completely idiotic for an elder to say that. I would never condone molestation of a child because someone wasn't "getting it". In reality molestation of a child has nothing to do with sexual fullfillment but power.
Personally, I think sex should flow freely between a couple but many within the JW's fell it necessary to repress there desires making all the more painful for families. That and the plethora of laws about do's and don'ts in the marriage bed. Many JW elders wives, from my experience, use the 'ole body for what they want, many times bribing husbands for need to know info that was discussed in BOE meetings.
Sorry if I offended you, not my intention.
