Gays Leave JWD! (page 8)

Sparkplug

Is this Friggin fair?!..Hambeaks friggin gay and the lady`s are falling all over him!!..LOL!!...OUTLAW

Its a ploy to win our love I tell you OUTLAW. He really just wants us. Yeah thats it! Play Gay and Get the ladies. hehe (It has worked for some)

IP_SEC

Its a ploy to win our love I tell you OUTLAW. He really just wants us. Yeah thats it! Play Gay and Get the ladies. hehe (It has worked for some)

On a totally unrelated note... I just thought I'd post my latest picture

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Sparkplug

Its a ploy to win our love I tell you OUTLAW. He really just wants us. Yeah thats it! Play Gay and Get the ladies. hehe (It has worked for some)
On a totally unrelated note... I just thought I'd post my latest picture

HAHA...I have to tell you IP. I am, today, a gay man and HOw are yooooo dooooing? (my best Joey voice)

IP_SEC

ahh well ya noaw I was just wondurin if sometime you might laike ta go fa caufey ah sumthin.

Sparkplug

Not everyone does overcome it. My nephew snuck into a locked cabinet, loaded a pistol and killed himself rather than own up to his parents that he was gay. After all he saw first hand what the religion and the family does to gays. He has seen my older brother and myself lambasted all his lifetime. He knew that we were doubly cursed by the family and the religion, and, he believed, by god.

Somehow in my sour ouss I missed this and Gretchen I had no idea. I am so damn sorry. It is just this kind of thing that tears me up. People at least need to let others be. If the person does not force you to live as they do...let them be. Aw Gretchen, I am so sorry.

Decki

JWdaughter

Gretchen, I am sorry to read of your cousin. I have seen the response of two children in our family that are gay and wonder how much of it is directly related to the family attitude about homosexuality.

One of the girls is a total rebel, her family is appalled at her lifestyle and it split them up and kept her out of college(her choice) for a year until they calmed down and she grew up a little. Still rough going, but they were just mad and unhappy and worried and it was too much for her. (they have reconciled and have an understanding) Other niece is same age approx and comes from a home where the mom is very gay friendly (and even wondered out loud to me a few years ago if her DD might be gay-though at the time she was dating a boy)This mom and daughter live in the same home and get along beautifully, are affectionate and concerned about each other in a way that they both are comfortable with. I wish I had that great a relationship with my oldest.

So we have two wonderful girls, but one of them has been struggling a lot more and one of them is a lot happier. They both have parents who love them, but only one had a parent who would accept their complete child.

I think that our society is a lot easier on lesbians than gay men, but that isn't saying a lot=cause we are pretty awful to gay men-anything is an improvement. I have personally seen, in my little world, how family attitude can make a difference.

We are a big family (all of us here on JWD) and we can be the one that condemns, or the one that will love even if we don't completely understand or agree.

I don't love my nieces because they are gay. I don't love them in spite of their being gay. I just love them. And the gay part is a whole other subject. Frankly, I wouldn't really want them to spend a bunch of time contemplating my sexuality, so I don't think that theirs is really any of my business, at least any farther than to know their partner and welcome them, just like we do all the other kids' friends.

MadTiger

Gawd.

That person has a serious problem, and no support here.

bubble

Hi Hambeak, I would say EVERYONE is welcome on jwd, especially gays. I'm sure they have more to deal with when leaving the org if it involves coming out as well. I know I'm here to support anyone who needs it. In fact I think jwd would be a much duller place without our gay friends.

I think the guy who phoned you still has jw tendencies, perhaps he doesn't want gays on this forum.

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