Good day Rosalee,
You said:
Never heard of any Witness telling anyone they should lie, either.
Based on my experiences, JWs are a cut above the average person
In reality there's a booklet given out by elders to JW's involved in child custody disputes where JW parents are advised to coach children into NOT saying in court their main goal is to "pioneer" after high school (if that is in fact the case.) That wouldn't be just a little lie, it would be perjury right?
YC