Why do you support having sex out of marriage?

by free2beme 58 Replies latest jw friends

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  found-my-way

  When my boys are older, I do not want them marrying the first girl they fall in love with.

  There will be many other girls as they get older that they will be more compatible with....i also would hope that they have safe sex with different people to learn about the differences in women, (if they are gay, that's ok with me too) to learn different techniques, learn about themselves....every new person you meet, brings new things to the table, good and bad...it's learning from these things that make you wiser...

  While I think that it's ideal if you can meet your lifemate when you are a virgin, the likelihood of that happening is like winning the lottery...

  I just want them to be happy...if they only want one partner for the rest of their life, then I support that...but if they wish to play the field, I'll teach them to be smart about it, safe about it, and teach them to always be honest with their intentions...as long as both parties know where they each stand, it's all good. just my opinion.
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  greendawn

  Isn't it better to have a more focused direction with one partner rather than continually fragment one's life with numerous partners? But somehow this is not the fashionable thing to do or the politically correct to suggest. Despite the bitterness and aggravation that each ended relationship causes.
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  candidlynuts

  i havent had sex in almost 6 years

  i say get it while/where you can! ' use it before you lose it'
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  ninja

  highlander said when you are married you have little or no sex....just to let you know me and my wife have sex all the time......just not with each other.......muhahahaha....kidding
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  mouthy

  i havent had sex in almost 6 years

  i say get it while/where you can! ' use it before you lose it'
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  mouthy

  OOps that got away from me....
  By your age on your profile Well I dont doubt it.,... Mine has been since 1985 so you lucky it is only six years at (0 your doing good LOL
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  mouthy

  i havent had sex in almost 6 years

  i say get it while/where you can! ' use it before you lose it' That is what HE said NOT Me
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  mouthy

  93 y 4 m 10 d <<<<<<<That is what she said she was
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  mouthy

  I just saw this >MOUTHY. I wish all christians were as you.
  Thank you. ( as I head to the window ...to put out my head LOL)
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  RichieRich

  I don't think everyone is emotionally capable of handling the idea of giving their bodies away with little to expect in return.

  But by the same token,

  I don't think everyone is emotionally capable of handling the idea of a lifelong committment to one person.

  So, you must know yourself, and use discretion.

  RichieRich, of the discretion coated in spermicide class.