I need a girlfriend

by Junction-Guy 94 Replies latest jw friends

  • Brigid
    Brigid

    I was just going to tell him about making the list!

    Beat me to it.

    It's great advice, Junction Guy. Be true to yourself. Accept no substitutes accept for what they are but neither waste their time by not explaining that it is casual.

  • lola28
    lola28

    Can someone be almost gay? How does that work?

    Lola

  • JK666
    JK666

    JG,

    I guess what jumped out at me was that you "NEED" a girlfriend. A woman in your life whould be a want. Maybe even a large want, but not a need!

    From your past posts, you seem to have a lot of ambiguity about yourself and what you need in a relationship. My suggestion would be to work on getting to know yourself better and developing self esteem outside of a relationship. If you learn to be happy with yourself, you just may attract the woman of your dreams when you least expect it, and are ready for it.

    Good luck,

    JK

  • Bryan
    Bryan

    Dave,

    Sorry you're feeling so lonely. Are you sure you should't be looking for a boyfriend?

    Either way, I found a great place to meet open minded people was at the local community theater. They need help building sets, working the tech end of things (like lights and changing sets during shows) and all sorts of stuff. You don't need to be an artist, just willing to help and give your time.

    I also would like to add that I firmly believe that you need to be happy with yourself before you can truly be happy with someone else.Have you thought about spending more time with your friends while you are in this confusing time?

    Just my little thoughts and wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you.

    Best,

    Bryan

  • Finally-Free
    Finally-Free
    I also would like to add that I firmly believe that you need to be happy with yourself before you can truly be happy with someone else.

    I strongly agree with this. Happiness has to come from within, not from any external source.

    W

  • jaguarbass
    jaguarbass

    That's easy E harmony.com

  • Mum
    Mum

    Where will you find a bisexual Christian conservative female? It could take a long time.

    In describing yourself as almost gay, JG, I think you describe what I observe in the majority of men. It seems to me that men prefer to relax and have a good time with other men, while women are there to fulfill needs. A friend of mine told me about being refused entry to a bar because it was for men only, not a gay bar, but men only.

    Do you know a woman in Kentucky you are interested in? Why can't you have a relationship with her? (None of my business, but I wonder why you made that remark that made it sound as if you already know the right woman, but there is some obstacle to being with her).

    Regards,

    SandraC

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    Loneliness is heavy going and depressing and the need for intimate company is understandable but I think you have set too many criteria for what is your ideal woman and it will be difficult to find one, personally I wouldn't mind her political party or if she drinks alcohol in moderation. You need to find where religious people gather in your area since you are after a believing Christian woman.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Good luck J-G!

    Kerj and I will be heterosexually camping if you need us.

  • SWALKER
    SWALKER

    This stopped me in my tracks: vote republican ,

    What woman do you think is going to go for that??????

    Swalker

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