I need a girlfriend (page 8)

junctions-wife

ok I would like to reply, Dave you are a great guy, I just grew up. You were my first love. And I am sorry that it didn't work out for us. The first couple of years were great, I needed more the last five. And I wasn't getting it. I was lonely, and heartbroken when I needed you, you weren't there. I am sorry, I never meant to hurt you the way I did. I honestly think I was never meant to be married. But I wish you all the best in life, cause you sure in the hell deserve it. And someday when you least expect it your perfect woman would come along and really knock your socks off. It just wasn't me. We were two different people completely.

with that being said this will be my last reply or response to anything on here. I don't belong anymore. For those who I have met in the past I wish you all the best! It has been fun, it has been real, and yes it has been real-fun!

Thanks everyone for opening my eyes to see how distuctive the JW's really are! Take Care of Dave for me! He is a pretty good fellow.

Amanda Willis

Dave's soon to be ex-wife.

horrible life

Amanda, You are a classy lady. I hope you have a wonderful life.

SWALKER

Junctions-wife...your post was one of the classiest things I've seen in a long time!

For both of you to come on here and post such nice comments about your soon to be ex, shows what nice people you both are!

(JG---You should copy and save this!!!)

Swalker

5go

Do you need a girl friend or a prostitute ?

Seriously, if you want sex go by it. If you really want a soul mate it takes a good search. Mean time go to Las Vegas and find a good whore to hold you over, or just bye some porn if that is to far for you.

Sarah Smiles

Is there such a thing as almost gay? How many people out there have thought they were gay?

I think you need help!

Junction-Guy

Thank you Amanda, I really appreciate your reply, you are still a sweetie.

Depending where you fall on that scale is what you are.

From what I've read there are alot of people who fall somewhere between straight and gay.

As for help, I had thought of reparative therapy, but those groups are few and far between here in Tennessee.

RAF

I don't know if you need or not a therapie
but from your ex wife's very nice answer you have an idea of what was wrong
1) I was lonely, and heartbroken when I needed you, you weren't there
2) I honestly think I was never meant to be married
which is incoherent somehow ... So what does that mean ?
she wants (or knows she have) to take a part of the blame on her or anyway this wasn't meant to last for ever anyway.
Don't look for a woman ... look for complicity (friend first - men women whatever, like every human being you first need to share and being understood) ... and it seems that your ex wife is one of those (being an ex) it's not a loss ... you've gain something (more valuable than it could be in your first kind of relationship) here with her.
More you are looking for something, and more you take the risk to see what you want in those you want ... just get in touch with people and when possible when not superficial relation you have something valuable there ... the woman you will love and being loved from in return will be find into this kind of relationships.
Also be confident in yourself ... it helps
I wish you the best luck JG !!!

RAF

Also complicity (which suppose a real kind of friendship feeling) do not mean that those you share this with, are those you need to have or to see or talk to everyday ... not even every month or year (maybe you already know people who share that with you) you can get closer but it doesn't have to be all of the sudden, neither that it will lead to marriage it's just something very good to feel and to share (but in those relationship you'll know at the end who you really want and who really wants to share more with you).
I do insiste because I'm not sure I'm clear (sorry) all in one what it means is that you shouldn't have a preconcive idea of what you are looking it limits the potential candidates - therefore you shouldn't really looking for anything special (just want to be you - and find people who likes you just the way you are) so it's more about feeling than searching (because maybe you'll change your idea about what you really want from that) - it all about authenticty (not normality - which is maybe not what you really want).

RAF

Also when I say be confident in yourself it does not mean that you have to feel great about yourself ...
It means that you have to love yourself just the way you are (today) and can be (tomorrow) ...
to give you a global idea about why it is as simple as that : I've realised that every default that we have is related to a quality.
Means that you can see a lot a qualities in someone which can turn into defaults - but that also means that you can see a lot of defaults in someone which can turn into qualities ... It's all good when we get into a good balance and it begans by acceptance and not wanting too much or not enough.

Junction-Guy

Thanks RAF

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