Hello 4mylove, actually when i first met him he was df'd and seperated from his wife. He was in another relationship and was living with the girl. After about a year with her he started feeling guilty and went back to his wife. He became reinstated, but about a year later they seperated again, he started another relationship and was again df'd. I've actually only ever known him when he's been inactive. He tells me that he's always been in love with me but had not seen it before
my JW boyfriend wants reinstatement. What do i do
by worldly girl81 74 Replies latest social relationships
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4mylove
Just know that if you are going to be a part of his life there will be many conditions to be met it you are ever to be a part of his family.
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Gopher
Hi wordlygirl.
SO to summarize, this guy went from his wife, to a live-in girlfriend, to his wife, then to you, and now he wants back in the organization.
And he claims to have been in love with you this whole time.
Not to be harsh, but he sounds fickle. He's trying to have both you AND his JW-ness. He knows as a JW he shouldn't be trying to do both.
He has a choice, but maybe he's just afraid to make that choice. You may have to be the grownup here and make your choice.
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SixofNine
Mods, you have a live one.
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firefly
actually Gopher, from what i've read, he went from his wife to a live in girlfriend, back to his wife, then ANOTHER girlfriend, then back to the wife and now to worldly girl, and he claims he's loved her the whole time. I'm seeing BIG red flags all over the place here!!
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sweetface2233
I'm wondering why "she's" got all of the JW terminology down pat. Look at the screen name.
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kerj2leev
actually Gopher, from what i've read, he went from his wife to a live in girlfriend, back to his wife, then ANOTHER girlfriend, then back to the wife and now to worldly girl, and he claims he's loved her the whole time. I'm seeing BIG red flags all over the place here!!
Exactly, sounds like a real catch! This wouldn't happen to be Billzfan would it!
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sweetface2233
This wouldn't happen to be Billzfan would it!
What do you mean, Kerj? Like Billzfan is pulling a fast one on us or this chick is supposedly dating Billzfan?
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kerj2leev
Maybe she is dating him! LOL
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firefly
Her knowing the terminology may not mean much. Heck i know it myself. I can't begin to tell you how much time i put into researching this religion to try to be able to keep my ex boyfriend. At one time i actually even considered joining just so i wouldn't lose him. Thank GOD that never happened!!!