We aren't saying that unloved children would be better off dead? I'm sure there are many that go on to live very happy lives, they shouldn't be punished for their parents being douche-bags!
Do me a favor Keri, watch this music video and tell me if you think that child is better off for being brought into the world, although its a music video, fake scenario, its one that happens daily. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDm03Foq2T0 Thousands of kids fall under the radar worldwide and no one notices what is going on or turns a blind eye until they are dead, slowly horribly murdered. The terror they must face at the hands of their "douche-bag" parents is unimaginable.