sad emo
Do you know the reasoning behind the OT writers describing God as an eagle who protects us? To get its young to leave the nest and learn to fly (alone!), the eagle ruffles up the nest and the young fledgling either falls or gets pushed out in the process. Then the parent hovers nearby whilst the young eagle goes from frantically flapping to riding on the thermals. ONLY if the young eagle gets into serious difficulty will the parent fly beneath it and catch it before it falls to its death.
That is where the complete dependence and reliance comes in - a certainty that God will catch you when you fall.
I reallly like the above illustration because it allows people the freedom to experience 'franticness' and 'aloneness' which imo is so necessary because it's sometimes an inevitable and unpredictable part of life.