I cannot disagree more with your therapist for your sake as well as your wife's!
First, for your wife she will just continue to hold out hope that you will come running back at some point and never have to face any reality at all.
For you, how can your therapist suggest you go back knowing what you know now? the pedophile issue, blood, suicides, scandals, scholarly dishonesty, unbiblical, etc..etc..etc.... Would she suggest you just 'try to get along with say the Nazi party for your wifes sake? Must you have no standards of your own? Hell, if I was a man I would be using the retarded 'head of the house' thing as far as I could push it! There are times we must take a stand for what is right and good, it is called courage.
It sounds like this therapist is looking at $ signs and some heavy duty long term sessions. Why must you aquiece (sp?) to her and your wife? We are not talking about you going along to the ballet once & blue moon and she going to a ball game here! This is life & death and people's lives and relationships are at stake every day. If you go to please the wife will she respect you knowing it is all a lie to you? At first it may seem like the 'nice' thing to do but I think it is cruel not only to you but to your wife too. Talk about holding out a carrot!
Some think I am extreme in comparing the jw's to Nazi's. Well, they keep records like the Nazi's, family members are encouraged to turn in their family members for even thoughts, the Nazi's killed some six million people, maybe the jw's aren't up to that count yet but who knows? How many deaths due to blood issue? how many people died and were maimed due to their old vaccination ban and ban on transplants? how many became blind because they couldn't get a cornea transplant? how many suicides? how many murders (though family murders are rare they do occur) Malawi, all the deaths, rapes, and outright murders were directly the cause of the wt. How many men suffered the unspeakable in prisons due to the no alternative service ban? How anyone can learn of the evils of this org and even ask someone to go back is beyond me. I often wonder what SS Guard spouses thought when they knew what was going on and how they dealt with it. Some may say that it was the times and they had no choice and that could be true. Today we have a choice (in free society) we have the choice to reject evil because when good men & women choose to do nothing evil persists and will win out and become acceptable. Then the pc crowd will tell us we must be 'tolerant'. Some of us choose not to tolerate evil and do what we can when we can, whatever that may be for the individual in this very quiet unknown war.
..None of it,has sounded plausible from the get go!..Is there really a therapist,That stupid??!!..LOL!!..TreverGate/OompaGate..
...OUTLAW