AlanF, Dannybear, misconceptions and humor

by seven006 77 Replies latest jw friends

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  seven006

  HS,

  I have to admit I don't think I have replied to any of your posts before so we haven't had the chance to talk. In fact until I spoke to Alan on the phone last weekend I thought you were a woman. It was the name that threw me off. He told me about what you have done and the kind of person you are. Coming from Alan I take what he has said to be true, that is except for when he trys to say good things about
  Kent the pig. <------humor

  I don't post much anymore because of things just like this. I have had to choose between my family and my conscience and I do not like to make those kind of choices. I hate it when people get the wrong impression of another on this board because things are said in anger, pain, and frustration.
  The little battle between Tina and Prisa taught me that lesson. I like and admire them both and for a little while I chose a side. I will not do that again. I will not choose between friends on this board because it is so diversified and impossible to get the real feeling about who someone is without meeting them in person. People have thought of me as being a mindless jokester because I like to make light of things. As Alan or any one who really knows me will attest to I am far from mindless. I do get a big kick out of people thinking that, it makes life a little more fun.

  There are a few obvious boneheads on this board and they do not hold back on exposing that fact on this board. For them, I can have some fun, I think that is all a part of the draw to this place and I think they live for the abuse. I see it as kind of an S&M for their personality or lack there of. For the rest that are exJW's either Christians or non Christian or what ever brand of thought they subscribe to I say good for them. If someone doesn't agree with me then that's fine by me, at least I might make them think for a minute with a few comments and they might give me a thing or two to ponder. I see it as all good brain and sole food, whether that food comes in the shape of a marshmallow or Peking Duck. Everyone is trying to figure it all out the best that they can. That's not an easy thing to do considering that many of us have lost precious time with our heads in the sand of the JW religion.

  Thanks for your post, I can see what Alan was talking about in regard to you.

  Thanks for the comment and take care,

  Dave
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  DannyBear

  Hillary,

  Thanks for your comments as well. I know you have been misunderstood on occassion, so can relate.

  There are so many here who, even though gruff and surly, show tenderness and empathy to the broken of spirit. Good hosts who warmly welcome newbies. Yet similar to the old Kingdom Hall, once the new guys are established, become fair game for ridicule and spite.

  In fact I stopped welcoming new one's, because of that very senario. Now responding to them only when involved in a thread. Almost better to let them get involved in the mele, before raising their expectations. Seems better than 'love bombing' them to soon. Let them step out of line, and the love bombs turn to plain bombs. We have blasted a few right off the radar screen.

  I try and be careful, but blow it, just like everyone else. As long as we keep trying, it's not a lost cause. Just as I hope my relationship with Alan, or any other poster here, will turn the corner for the better.

  Your a classy guy HS.

  Danny
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  VeniceIT

  Nice post Dave!!!! What's the world coming to when Dave's the voice of reason???? Alan and Julie drained our bottle of scotch too hmmm [>:(]

  Venice

  Fluff posting class

  "Injustice will continue until those who are not affected by it are as outraged as those who are."
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  seven006

  Danny,

  Try not to dribble on your key board so much, you typed in some 5's where there should have been 6's. I thnk you have that sticky key problem again. Having the runs while traveling over a bridge is not something a normal person openly admits. But then again I'm talking to you so never mind. Thank god for Depends! Tell the little woman I said hi.

  dave
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  seven006

  Bite me Ven......no,..... a little lower. Damn, now I feel like a dirty old man.

  Dave
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  DannyBear

  tj,

  You mean the rumor's are true? Never would of thunk. He Haaa

  I guess in our case, you and me, it's kind of like Alan and Dave. We have talked on the phone, shared some email, and talked about life, love etc.

  I guess that is the point of both Dave's and HS posts. We just can't make the mistake of passing swift judgement, based on a few 'error's' or typo's in our posts. That's it the next time somebody call's you a dipfuck, stupid troll bastard...just calmly reply that you understood, it was simply a mistake. By George I think we've got it!

  Danny
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  DannyBear

  Dave and Ven,

  You two make a cute couple.

  Except when someone taps Dave on the shoulder and inquires "will you and your daughter, require seperate rooms?" .... I got your 6 right here Dave! Typo, typo, typo only a mere typo.

  BiteBigBear
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  VeniceIT

  BWWWAHAAHAHHAHHAHHAHA

  Ven

  "Injustice will continue until those who are not affected by it are as outraged as those who are."
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  seven006

  Danny you bastard! Ven is like the illegitimate daughter I never wanted. I love her like a pet duck. To think of anything beyond that would like me wanting to see my sister naked. My sister is pretty hot but give me a break, I do have some sense of morals. I hope Alan is reading this, he might begin to see what I was talking about when it comes to you. I take it back, your a prick too. I feel like JoleBear, I'm surrounded by pricks and I like them. I can't believe I said that, I guess anything for a laugh, I have to find my "don't even go there" book and bone up on a few thing....shit, I did it again. I am not what this looks like. Just because I don't date doesn't mean I have switched teams. I am just enjoying a brief time of sanity. I'll find a girlfriend someday. It's not normal for a guy to be this happy.

  Dave
  PS: ya, I'm on my second cocktail. It's Friday night and I'm on the computer, give me a break!
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  seven006

  TJ thanks for the comment, Alan has told me about you too. Your one of the controversial ones, I like that in a person.

  take care and thanks

  Dave