Getting something you don't deserve says what exactly about the person accepting and the person giving?
Christians base their faith on "need" rather than merit.
Christians make the "undeserved" part of the Gift reflect on God's LOVE rather than an indication of his violation of his own values.
Getting a Christian to even see the real issue is next to impossible because, after all, they are getting something FREE which they don't deserve!
Where does reality enter the picture here?
A local Fortune Teller in a seedy part of Fort Worth many years ago had a pretty good business going for herself. Any client that came to her for a problem to be solved was told three things:
1.You have a curse placed on you. Your life will only get worse and worse until the curse is lifted.
2.Lifting the curse requires a ritual. (The fortune teller makes up a meaningless ritual that involves burying a large sum of money in a hole.)
3. The Fortune Teller later (after secretly retrieving the buried money) pronounces the curse as having been "lifted". The client goes away happy and relieved.
This is a model of how GRACE works.
1. All Christians have to believe that a CURSE has been placed on them and their life will get worse and worse until it is lifted.
2. A meaningless ritual is involved (baptism, prayer, meeting attendance, etc.) The person's SELF is buried in a hole. (i.e. they have to go to church or a Kingdom Hall etc. for the rest of their life.)
3. Jehovah lifts the curse (Jesus died for your sins) and you go away happy and unburdened.
The Watchtower Society or your local Pastor reaps the reward by using your buried treasure (your SELF) for their own purposes.
It is a racket.