A guy gets disgussed with the disgusting things that the religion is about and his wife wants to leave him? What a F'n cult! Unless you are in Colorado, don't think she can take your children if you protest. Sorry Dan.
Think About It
I HATE this religion
by brotherdan 388 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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leavingwt
It's time for a free consultation with an attorney. Nobody needs to know about except you. What you want out of this consulation is simple: What is the worst-case scenario? Once you know what you're up against, you can act accordingly. No need for surprises that just upset you further. A consulation doesn't mean you want (or will be getting) a divorce. You simply want to know more details about the legal contract you're already in.
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isaacaustin
Dan, even if the kids do not go to school I doubt she can leave with the kids to another state if you fight it...don't back down but act quickly on this one!
I know of cases where the mom left the state for a better job and was not allowed to take the daughter and had to choose between the job and her daughter...actually I know of 2 cases.
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miseryloveselders
The kids are not in school. I work all day, and she is a stay at home mom. I don't think there is anything I could do to keep her from taking the kids. Plus, the kids need their mommy. She really is a good mommy...The best actually...
This is what kills me. I'm don't want to overly criticize your wife as its disrespectful to her and you as her husband. However, its interesting to me that in your situation and SD's situation, the stay at home moms are for all appearances taking advantage of you guys.
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snowbird
I've been thinking the same, Misery.
I went to work when my first daughter was 7 months old.
I cried all the way there.
I would have given an arm and a leg to be able to stay at home with her, but we had to eat and be sheltered!
That so-called husband of mine and no-account daddy of hers was totally unreliable.
Syl
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Deputy Dog
Dan
Take the advise and talk to an attorney NOW. You'll probably be surprised at what your rights are. It can't hurt.
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brotherdan
I just don't want this to turn ugly. I'm seriously just about to give up.
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isaacaustin
Dan, I just asked my friend who went thru similar- He said you can block her from leaving the state with the kids. if she leaves it is called parental kidnapping...she has to have a letter that you sign giving her approval to take the kids. He said to tell you to file a motion for parental scheduling and that will block her from doing this.
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Deputy Dog
Dan
Isaac is right at least in NJ. Talking to the attorney doesn't make it ugly. It doesn't have to get ugly unless she chooses to make it that way. At least it will be her doing it, not you.
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ihadnoidea
Wow and this is what scares me from coming out of the closet with my beliefs. Wish you well.