I HATE this religion (page 13)

garyneal

Dan,

Time to take the gloves off. Let her know in no uncertain terms that you will not allow her to leave the state with your child in tow without a fight. I've seen the cult personality in my wife too, it is indeed ugly.

Libelle

I agree, if she is talking about leaving and taking kids out of state, you're going to have to cover your bases. You can still play fair with a lawyer. But having one on your side will protect you in case she doesn't play fair. Which is possible.

So very very sorry, BD. (((((BD))))))

brotherdan

I don't have money for a lawyer. I'm tired and weak and can't do this anymore. It's taken everything out of me. I'm just stunned and in disbelief. 2 weeks ago we were in Hawaii and totally in love. I don't think I can do this anymore.

ninja

roses are red

violets are blue

dan's feeling down

and suicidal too

Nice_Dream

brotherdan - Lawyers usually give free consultations. And they may have a payment plan too. Maybe you could phone and see what your options are.

(((((hugs)))))

isaacaustin

Dan, if you would like to talk to a friend of mine who went thru EXACTLY what you did, after 30 years of marriage..send me a pm.

Mad Sweeney

Does anybody have the Borg "Child Custody" manual they can post a link to?

leavingwt

I don't have money for a lawyer.

You can get a free consult, when you're ready to deal with it. Please hang in there.

garyneal

Dan,

I understand your feelings on the matter, it is stressful and tiring. Take it a step at a time. Your first step is to schedule a free consultation. Tell him what your wife is planning to do and ask him what your next step should be.

You have all of us here supporting you, please don't give up and give in.

Chalam

1 Corinthians 7:15-16 (New International Version)

15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

Let her go. Take it from me, she'll be back sooner or later.

The space will be good for her, she'll realise what she has left behind.

Ask for more of the peace which surpasses all understanding and rest in that and the love which just keeps on giving :)

Do not pander to the flesh which screams to get mad, get even, get revenge etc.

Interceeding for you and your family over here.

Blessings in Christ,

Stephen

I HATE this religion

1 Corinthians 7:15-16 (New International Version)

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