I HATE this religion (page 16)

MMXIV

BroDan,

This may sound unkind but it's something she has been planning behind your back for more than just a few hours, that's why she's been cold and saying very very little for days now. Ensure you get access to your children - that is what your children need and what you need. If you haven't got money for a lawyer you certainly can't afford to fly to Denver every weekend for visitation. You need to spend a little now to get this kind of thing sorted - you'll not regret it for the next decade or two.

Most of all I'm so sorry. However terrible, however sick you feel right now, it may not get better tonight or tomorrow but will get better soon. Whatever advice you need you know we're here 24/7.

mmxiv

poopsiecakes

omg I can't believe how this situation has turned. I'm so so so sorry that this is happening to you, brotherdan. Her over the top reaction smells very fishy to me...

I agree with Thinky - it's time to use the elders to your advantage and get to the bottom of this mess...

Again...I'm so sorry darlin.

OUTLAW

BD..

No, it's a JW girlfriend that she is moving with. I feel sick to my stomach.

You can always count on a Jehovah`s Witness to help Break Up a Marriage..

If the WBT$ can`t Rule..They will Ruin..

........................ ...OUTLAW

brotherdan

I'm sorry guys. I sound like a total bitch (sorry fellow Christians). She has specifically told me "I do not love you anymore. And I haven't for a long time." So...I can accept that. I went out to lunch and did the most unchristian thing ever (sorry my brother, Stephen)...

I drank 8 beers and came back to work. Fortunately my boss is not here. But I am a loser and I give it all up. Wow...yeah, I loved my wife so much Igave it all up. I'm done. Love you guys. But I can't do it anymore. :-(

brotherdan

omg I can't believe how this situation has turned. I'm so so so sorry that this is happening to you, brotherdan. Her over the top reaction smells very fishy to me...

You made me cry poopsiecakes. At work...

I am so lost. I can't do this.

brotherdan

The elders in my hall are good. They are just blind. One of my favorite elders said, and I quote , "The faithful slave has discovered out the timeline that God has given us. It is our job to follow it. They've never let us down before!"

Of course I could show that they were wrong. But I was made to feel that if I didn't agree with it, then I was of Satan. It hurts. I hate myself. And while I know that God does not support this, I'm done.

But I love you guys. I hope to meet you some day.

wannabefree

Dan. You are obviously not a loser. Your life has been your family, you have come to a shocking realization in life and your thoughts have been out of concern for the future of your family. Don't be so hard on yourself man! You are not a loser. Your wife's comments make me think this was coming and your religious awakening was convenient and made it easier for her. It's not your fault.

VampireDCLXV

I know it seems really bad right now, Dan, but please, don't break our hearts by giving up. I know you're tired and beaten up. After your workday is done, go home or wherevever you feel safe and have a good sleep. You really need your rest. It'll be better in the morning, I promise. Okay? Be good to yourself...

V665

PS: I'm crying too...

undercover

Hey, Dan...

It may suck, but at least you know the truth. She's chosen to leave...she's chosen the path that will break up the family. All she needed was an excuse, and you're questioning the WTS was all she needed and she jumped on it.

It might be hard right now, but this is a ticket to freedom. Freedom from the cult, freedom from being trapped in a loveless marriage. But you gotta stay strong for your kids. You gotta show them that you love them more than anything and everything else in this world. No matter what happens, they are number one in your life. That's what you live for now. Forget her, forget the WT.... focus on the kids. Raise them right, be a positive influence in their lives.

Keep posting your thoughts as you think this through. It helps to write things down. Even if you don't post them, write them down. If you want to share, we'll listen, if you don't delete them and write something else.

Stay in touch...

poopsiecakes

You made me cry poopsiecakes. At work...

reading what you've been going through has made me cry too...at work...

I HATE this religion

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