I'm new here, but I must say, I am very intrigued by Cheezits method of ... well, I guess debate for lack of a better word, because I don't think he is "debating" in the common understanding of the word, but I use "debate" for the real meaning of it.
SBC, your insight and ability to remain unbiased is noteworthy. Your comment about focusing on the bad stuff and not the positive has always been trying to erupt from my mind, but never vocalized. This is a comment that can be used ANYwhere.
For instance, if a JW family member or friend were to ever readily point out the mistakes and shortcomings of another religion, which, let's just admit it, they all do, we could easily reply with, "Yeah, but you know there are some shortcomings in your own belief system (what with doctrinal changes, imperfections, etc etc) and that's a negative. Yet you choose to focus on the positive. What's the difference?"
Almost sad how I see so many people leave the Witnesses only to ENGULF themselves in another equally irrational religious conundrum. I see that a lot here. Then there are those who go completely and disrespectfully bonkers. I say disrespectfully because while I don't feel there is anything intrinsically wrong with stronger language, I know that I wouldn't just drop the F bomb around anybody. Yet some users on this forum do that, disregarding the effect it might have on someone who is just "auditing" the website. All that disrespect does is strengthen the resolve of those peeking out of the JW organization to remain close, because the world outside is dark and demonic. I don't agree with WT methodology, but if every single human on the planet were a Witness, I am forced to admit that I would feel safer and my outlook on life would be more positive.
Sorry for going on a tangent here, I have been needing to relieve my bladder since I started the post.