Open relationships, polyamory and swinging

by techdotcom 104 Replies latest social relationships

  • NewChapter
    NewChapter

    Okay, you be the householder, and I'll be the pioneer. *knock, knock*. I'll flaunt my sexy bookbag that I picked up for a great deal at the second hand shop.

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    Have we met before, lol?

  • NewChapter
    NewChapter

    LOL---only in our fantasies!

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    Honestly I think the very repressive view of sex from the WT is what breeds this. Like minded people hang out and before u know it, the underwear is on the lamp

  • NewChapter
    NewChapter

    Like minded people hang out and before u know it, the underwear is on the lamp

    In that case, thank goodness we weren't Mormons! It's the small things . . .

    NC

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    they get to keep their underwear

  • NewChapter
    NewChapter

    Wha! I think you have solved BOTH the birth control AND the abstinence only debates. Just provide the pics, and nature will do the rest---or won't do the rest, whatever---I'll never have sex again.

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    yea I used to say that the thought of your parents having sex was enough to send anyone into celebacy

  • techdotcom
    techdotcom

    Well damn....I missed those parties as a dub, might have wanted to stay in longer.... jk lol

    Yeah the sexual repression brings out the freaks (self included). Those that we have met that had no connection with the religion tend to have a much more relaxed attitude when it comes to sexual expression and don't really make a big deal about it one way or the other. In comparison to the ex JW's we know.

    The ex JW's tend to be really wild and ready to make up for lost time like we have or still holding on to the strict and repressive morality mindset and be offended or wierded out by sex or any kind of postponed adolecent behaviour. We have actually settled down quite a bit and while we retain the open sexuallity, with rare exception we don't really make an effor to "hook up" with friends. When it happens yay, but not a focus. Still waaaaay more parties and going out to enjoy ourselves in the past 2 years than in my whole life at that point.

  • DesirousOfChange
    DesirousOfChange

    As a teen in the '60s, I recall a group of JWs where "wife swapping" was rumored.

    More recently, toppless or skinny-dipping pool parties and hot tub parties went on amongst a number of close JW friends. Obviously they were cautious about who was involved.

    Just a year or two ago, a cong in the Metro area near here had numerous DFing & Reproofs from wild ass parties that were rumored to involved many of the young couples and singles (20s & 30s) participating in "games" -- body shots, etc. I see a surge in bisexual interest among women, judging from our worldly nieces, and I suspect that curiosity extends to young JWs as well. Add some tequila shots around a pool or hot tub and there you have it.

    Doc

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