It most certainly is a choice - either follow the commands of God - or the perversions of man.
You become hardened in what you practice. Integrity and virtue or foolishness and stupidity.

Role Reversals, Feminism and The Emasculation of Men
"I doubt that anyone would seriously argue that a reversal of men's and women's roles has not taken place in our post-modern era. The 20th century has seen a radical transformation from traditional biblical values to decidedly non-traditional choices. Women want to be like men. And men would rather have a more passive and submissive role to women! This role reversal, which began with the modern onset of feminism and has escalated into a virtual emasculation of men, has seen the exaltation of women over men in every arena of life. Thus, as the 21st century begins to unfold, our young boys and girls hardly know the difference (aside from the biological) between the sexes.
Modern feminism - the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes - was officially launched in 1920 with the passing of the 19th amendment to the Constitution of the United States. This legislation, which gave women the right to vote, effectively gave wives veto power over their husbands in their choices for all issues political and social, because they could nullify their husbands vote at the polls. This liberation of women spread to issues inside the home, opening the door for women to exercise additional arm twisting power over their husbands in ways that neutered their husbands authority in the marriage relationship.
With the roles of men and women in society up for debate, women, at the prodding of the liberal, anti-God, anti-establishment women's groups, began looking for other ways to find fulfillment. They were told and believed that in order to reach their maximum potential in life, they must seek independence from their husbands and have careers outside of the home. As women did this, the children were left to others for their care and upbringing. This detaching of the children from their parents has driven a wedge between the generations in what came to be known as "the generation gap" and has achieved the near demolition of the family.
Meanwhile, as women's groups continued to push the envelope towards a position of equality with men in every area, the liberals weren't yet satisfied. In their arrogance, they wanted women to have superiority and control over their male counterparts. We've been propagandized into thinking that women are smarter and better and more adept than men. So they should be in positions of leadership and control.
This upheaval in the social order which elevated women naturally led to the subordination of men. While men have voluntarily ignored and forfeited their God given responsibility to be head in the home and lead the family and community in righteousness, they have sunk to a level of childish immaturity and surrender of their masculine stature. As generation after generation of families have seen the father completely ignore their responsibility in bringing fatherly discipline and instruction to their sons, men have lost touch with what is really means to be a good father. In a word, men have become wimps because they don't know how to act like men should act.
With men abdicating their role as head and leader, and with women usurping those roles which should be man's, a complete breakdown of the family as the core building block of society is nearly completed. The liberal media has jumped on this opportunity and with the full cooperation of Hollywood and the politically correct environment has barraged us with the images of women as smart and superior while men are depicted as stupid and submissive.
Anyone who has access to the media - radio, television, internet - knows that in all the sit-coms, dramas, advertising, virtually everywhere where people meet and interact, woman are portrayed as intelligent, clever, intuitive, leaders, imaginative, decisive, in control of their environment and likeable. Men, on the other hand, are generally represented as mindless, uninformed, wimpy, effeminate, out of touch, out of style, imbeciles whose only interests are television, beer, sports and sex. Men are emasculated daily by a world which wants men to fail dismally and women to triumph over men so that children may be raised and trained to be pawns and servants of an all-knowing, all-powerful government.........."
http://bibletruth.cc/OrderInTheBody.htm