Correct me if I'm wrong, Sabastious: Witnesses believe that Satan has their eyes on them anyways. They don't need words like "Kingdumb Hell" to believe they should stay "in" and be "no part of this world".
As to "having to be and being the bigger people", sometimes we will agree, and sometimes we won't. I'm afraid that here we don't. And, as you say, it's good that now you have my opinion on the matter. I will add more.
What you're saying is, someone will go back to the Watchtower if we use language such as "Kingdumb Hell". Question: How many of the people who are lurking here at the time HAVEN'T left this site despite the language? How many HAVE left the Borg, sorry, the Society, without the language being a factor at all? Do we have to believe that many a lurker will go back to "Mother" because of those words, not because the elders will have him disfellowshipped? How can we measure whether it's the language that keeps a person in or out?
What about the people who feel they have been deeply damaged by the Watchtower and feel they need such a language to truly convey their feelings? Will they please shut up?
I'm afraid that you're not being the bigger person here. I'm afraid you simply dislike the terms. I can understand that feeling. When I was a Catholic, a devout one by the way, I made friends with many priests. None of whom abused me, by the way. I met one or two who were real bastards, and one or two who were excellent human beings. Despite their being "worldly", or, more appropriately, the messengers of the Harlot, instruments of Satan. I would really resent it if people were to call these specific people pedophiles. One of these men is still a close family friend, and he's very old and frail now. I know he's a lot better than the picture that is usually given of these agents of "the Snare and the Racket". Does that mean I will ask people not to speak their minds?
By the way, did anyone on this forum resent my calling the Catholic Church a Harlot, "snare and racket", and the priests pedophiles, instruments of Satan? I don't have that impression. Perhaps we shouldn't use that language, lest we alienate Catholics? The Catholic Church will say that these are simply the words of heretics, users of a purposefully mistranslated Bible. Maybe Satan will end up the loser again and will be blamed with it.
You say that the Watchtower information tactics "demand" that we don't use certain words. Are you sure this isn't just the same as giving in to the Watchtower bully?
Should we NOT say that the Watchtower is a mind control cult? Maybe we should not, because we could send a lurker back to the Kingdom Hall?
Can you really say that if no "Apostish" (the opposite of "Dubbish") were used on this site, there would simply NOT be a lurker who wouldn't go back to the Kingdom Hall saying "Hey, apostates were saying the most awful things about Jehovah's organization! Some of them claim that the Governing Body does not really receive New Light from Jehovah! They are saying that they are a group of old men led by corporate interests only! They were EVEN CLAIMING THAT JERUSALEM DIDN'T FALL ON 607 B.C.! They think that apostate Ray Franz was a good man! Most even read his books! I tell you, they even have PDF's of Franz's book right on a prominent place of the site! What kind of a world we are living in,these days! Signs, who can doubt it, of the imminent coming of Armageddon!"
Come on.