There are posters who believe parents should not be allowed to teach their children their faith
Yes, when I was new to this board, I saw that. They called it abuse. I said I thought it went to far to say such a thing. We all raise our children with our worldview, and it is impossible to raise them completely neutral, and that this is a parent's right. I was really chewed off the thread, and have avoided it ever since. If I were to do it again, I would be an atheist, and I would share those ideas with my child. How could I not? Perhaps a religious person (not you---i get it, i get it) would think of THAT as abuse.
It's an important line. If we want the freedom to continue as nonbelievers, unharrassed, then we had BETTER have the mindset that believers also have that right. If we ALL held to these principals, then there would be very little conflict. The conflict comes in when one group tries to enforce their will on another---and I don't mean through debate--that is always fair----but through policy or abuse. In America, this is far more common with religious people----I get it, I get it---fundies.
With kids it's harder. They are dependent on, and come under the authority of their parents. What happens if a believer's child doesn't want to go to church or read the bible? Well the parents have the right to force it---children have so few options here. What happens if an atheist's child wants to go to church? If it were mine, I'd allow it of course---would make for some fun debate. As it is, my daughter thinks a lot like me, although her ideas are still forming in this area, and she is still experimenting.
For myself, the core value that I hold as an atheist, is that we all should get to choose our way. We should all be able to speak up when challenged. But we don't need to hunt each other down and preach. A debate should stop when one party decides it is enough. I have been very frustrated lately, because in my real life, I JUST CAN'T MAKE IT STOP! I don't even start it. It's times like those when I do wish religion and belief would go away, just so I can have some freaking peace. But that's not what I really want. I would rather discuss ideas, and if someone sees something new in them, then good for them.
NC