Hi Becky, I'm okay now. How can I put this? Well, the thread started off okay and then when the pants came off and the naked started I became offended. Sometimes I go to "R" rated movies and I am forewarned that there is going to be sex and I am not offended most times. I think it was the inappropriateness of the nakedness that offended me. Yes. I thought it was unappropriate for members here on a public forum to disrobe and whether or not it was tastefully done is besides the point (not to mention a judgment call). I realize that this is a "no rules" forum, but I believe that in that thread some people pushed the envelope. I hope this helps. Let me know.
Sometimes I Am Ashamed
by Dutchie 205 Replies latest jw friends
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joeshmoe
Ven, you're wandering into a live ammunition exercise. Grab a helmet and duck you crazy fool!!
ps - you're right
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Naeblis
Dutchie? What part of "boobies welcome" suggest to you there would ne no nakedness?? And why did you simply not go into the thread anymore? Why do you ignore these questions? If you don't like it.. dont go! You're a grown woman arent you? Do you not have control of yourself?
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mindfield
Naeblis,
Pack the sarcasm somewhere else. Dutchie already said that she feels responsible for her neighbors. That obviously means that she feels responsible for participating in a public forum that contains a thread she doesn't feel comfortable with. Let her explain herself before you make low hits about her lack of self-control.
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WildHorses
I have only one question. How come there weren't any judgemental post such as this and mind turnabout on his thread untill after Simon closed the pic thread?
And a statment: Just because a person chooses to post pics of themself(which all of them except a few had all the important parts edited) Does not mean a person does not have morals. I, as I am sure most here would not post pics of themself in the act of sex.
I speak for myself here when I say, I do not sleep with every Tom Dick and Harry. I don't steal. I don't have cyber sex. I don't go to bars. I go to work and come home, spend time on the internet and joke around. It really pisses me off when someone assumes because I post a pic of my cleavage on the internet, that for this reason I have no morals.
I, as I am sure many others here are good people who know each other via the internet and trusted each other enough to have a bit of fun.
Lilacs
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Dutchie
Naeb, the first part of the thread was okay. I've said that before. I understand what bobbies mean. The thread degenerated, in my opinion, of course, with naked butts and complete nakedness! I think that it was inappropriate for this forum. My opnion differs from yours, I'm sure, but that is what makes us individuals isn't it. Additionally, I did start this thread to preach to you about your morals. I simply wanted to state my opinion. I am entitled to do that, am I not?
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beckyboop
Thanks Naeblis, that's what I was going to say! Dutchie, how could you have not expected nakedness? or was it the mens' naked butts that pushed it over the edge for you? Why is that? If a thread is asking for boobie pictures, didn't it occur to you that it might mean naked boobs?
Becky
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beckyboop
Yes, Dutchie, it's ok to state your opinion, but you called into account people's morality, over naked pictures! Come on, how can you assume that has anything to do with morals? And Mindfield, you were perfectly willing to participate for a LONG time, until Simon closed it. Why the about face? How did you suddenly feel like it was wrong, when you were making such a big deal over waiting until your parents were asleep before you could really post? Just curious
Becky
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mindfield
I already explained the about face. And frankly, asking me why I changed my mind is just avoiding the topic at hand. I admit it. I made a blunder. I messed up. I made a mistake. How many times I have yet to say that again I have no clue.
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joeshmoe
Lilacs,
I do not sleep with every Tom Dick and Harry
Hi, I'm a Joe.
Luv ya Lilacs, I'm putting crazy emoticons all over the place.
You've created a monster!