My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!! (page 3)

Lady Lee

Alleymom

Lady Lee --- you had some great articles and advice for Karissa! Is there anything you would recommend she do to help her children get over this? I noticed that she said her daughter really missed the guy. This kind of betrayal has to hurt them, too

I would suggest the truth. Provide age appropriate information to help the child/children understand that he told some very big lies and now you can't trust him. Let them know you are sorry this happened and that you miss him too but he is gone and then find something fun to do together

Big Tex

Karissa, great advice on this thread. If it were me, I'd send copies of the correspondence to his elders and his wife. Not out of spite but my feeling would be that since this man is a skunk of a liar they have a right to know who and what he is. This knowledge may prevent another woman from being hurt as you were.

As for your daughter, I agree with Lady Lee. Tell her the truth. Better a little pain now than more down the road. It's a sad fact of life that there are bad people in this world, and she needs to be told about them, but in a kind and simple way. She needs to be aware of people like this since she will be grown one day.

Chris

Karissa

Anyone live in or near the Newberry FL area.

I think I may like the idea's of some of you-

Ohhh boy!

Karrisa

Elsewhere

It sounds like this guy wants to have several women in several parts of the country. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if he has one or more women elsewhere that you don't even know about.

AlanF

I would give all his personal stuff to charity, then set up a meeting with the local JW elders and tell them that you didn't know what to do about your relationship with this moron. Show them all the photos, letters, etc. and innocently ask their opinion. Let nature take its course from there.

AlanF

Gretchen956

oooh, Alan, I don't think I'd want her going to a Judicial Committee, there's always the chance that they think she can be saved. Better to mail it to the elders in Florida.

Once they get it in their heads there might be "hope" for you (she did study) there may be no easy way to get them off her back.

Gretchen

talesin

Anyone live in or near the Newberry FL area.

You can get relevant phone numbers, addresses on the net. Just do a google search for "free telephone directories", hook up with free 4-1-1, and go from there.

talesin

Dan-O

Not anymore, Karissa. But I grew up about an hour or so away from there. These days, you'd need to make a long distance run up I-75 to hang out with the O Family.

Gretchen956

All Businesses Showing 1 to 8 of 8

Business Name:	Address:	Miles**
Jehovah's Witnesses Spanish & West Oaks Congregation (352) 372-4800	5707 SW Archer Rd Gainesville, FL Map	12.4
Kingdom Hall Jehovah Witness (352) 498-2767	County Yard Rd~ Ccty Gainesville, FL Map	17.0
Kingdom Hall Waldo Road Congregation (352) 375-8281	1124 NE 3rd Av Gainesville, FL Map	17.7
Kingdom Hall Of Jehovah's Witnesses (352) 493-7509	14931 N Highway 19 Chiefland, FL Map	18.7
Kingdom Hall Hawthorne Congregation (352) 481-5245	14 N Johnson St Hawthorne, FL Map	31.4
Jehovah's Witnesses (352) 489-3110	619 E Withlacoochee Tr Dunnellon, FL Map	44.8
Kingdom Hall Of Jehovah's Witnesses (904) 272-1196	17 Knight Boxx Rd Orange Park, FL Map	50.0
Kingdom Hall Of Jehovah's Witnesses (904) 529-9976	3698 Thunder Rd Penney Farms, FL Map	50.0

When I put in Newberry Florida and searched under Jehovah's Witnesses, this is what I came up with....

codeblue

Welcome Karissa!!!

As I read your story my heart really ached for you. Please let me explain.

You were involved with a man, that was like my ex husband written all over. We were both raised as JW's....we got married and before our 2nd anniversary he started "cheating" on me. This went on for 20 years......he would go to his work conventions and I wasn't allowed to go. He didn't want me to "work"...He was "jealous"...he cheated on me with a sister in a congregation that was suppose to be my best friend.

I hope you understand what kind of man you got involved with. This kind of man can not be trusted, and never be trusted. He is seriously flawed. Doesn't matter that he claims to be a JW...he is full of lies and deciet and knows how to manipulate you so you can still "love" him. Run as fast as you can!!! Please....

Be glad that you received this information now before you invested any more time. I know what it is like to love someone dearly...but when he left me I lost so much weight I was anorexic....and had severe low self esteem, remember I had invested 20 years into this selfish man. He never changed....

You invest about 6 months....you can repair yourself. Please get some counseling. You are worth more than this deceitful man.

I liked the idea of sending the things to the congregations and to his wife. This guy needs a huge wakeup call. His double life needs to be dealt with. He needs to know there are severe consequences for his actions.

I am so sorry you had to go thru this, nobody deserves this type of ABUSE and that is what has happened to you. You seem like a very sweet, caring person. Please pm me if you have any more questions or need to vent some more.

hugs,

Codeblue

My heart has been broken in two -JW- HE IS MARRIED!!!

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