Everyone is a skeptic until they have a personal experience with someone who has passed. That is what changes peoples minds. As JW's we were told that only demons appear to people pretending to be lost loved ones. Funny that the bible does not support such a notion. That is no where in the bible at all. That is a notion made up by the WTS to keep people fearful. Fear is the greatest enemy of a open and reasoning mind.
TallTexan,
Your experience was special a gift to you. To know that the pain is gone and is not carried on after death, and that people consciousness continues right on through the body is dead. What a comfort that can be for dying people, instead of being afraid of death.
Balsam