LOL! Scooby, you are right. I do persist in viewing you as favorable to the WTS society, when really that may not be entirely accurate. I think it is true though, that you may not encourage people directly to go back, but you have to admit it often appears that you applaud people who do. It's a matter of perception. You may not be sitting at the bar next to them going "go back, go back," but to the xJW sitting next to you, it may sound like you are.
If that isn't your intent, it's not very clear. Maybe the better question would be why are you a fence sitter? What is it about the JWs that you still think is right? Do you think Holly made a wise decision in joining the JWs, especially in light of her disagreement with some basic JW doctrine?
I think, like you, most of us do wish her the best. But most of us are very concerned that she is making a very bad decision, and realize that likely she is letting herself in for a LOT of heartache.