I doubt that anyone is right - that is my main area of doubt.
You are so close to a breakthrough here, just keep thinking about what you're saying. You're saying that "right" is a supreme, all-encompassing worldview that is correct. It is not flawed in any way. It is the absolute-zero of error. You're saying you doubt anyone has that worldview. You're right. Ok, now what? Do you continue to search for this mythical "right" group? Or do you decide that it doesn't matter and go find what's right for you, what works for SBF? What makes you happy. Wrecking my r/c helicopter makes me happy, so it's right for me to do that. I'll keep doing it and love it. Stop trying to identify this "right" group and start enjoying yourself. It's not selfish, it's using your time effectively and to a purpose, keeping your blows from striking the air. Dave