My wifes struggle

by gringojj 126 Replies latest jw friends

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    Mrs G,
    As I read that nasty poem she gave I know I had a look of shock and disgust on my face. My dear Mrs G you dont need to ever have that woman back in your house. I wouldnt. I just saved the nasty thing on my computer. Josie

  • a friend in need
    a friend in need

    Mrs. grongojj,

    Thanks for the reply. I guess because JWD is almost all exjws, you see me as one also. I am in fact one of Jehovah's Witnesses and just responded to someone who I felt needed support. Your study partner is likely doing what seems best but I just felt you need to know that it might not be the best time to make major decisions.

    By being here it looks like you are leaning toward exjw thoughts. This is your right and you are the only one who can decide what is right for you. Just give yourself some time. Enough now to take care of yourself and the new baby on the way.

    All the best in whatever you decide ... afin

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5
    Mrs. grongojj,

    Thanks for the reply. I guess because JWD is almost all exjws, you see me as one also. I am in fact one of Jehovah's Witnesses and just responded to someone who I felt needed support. Your study partner is likely doing what seems best but I just felt you need to know that it might not be the best time to make major decisions.

    By being here it looks like you are leaning toward exjw thoughts. This is your right and you are the only one who can decide what is right for you. Just give yourself some time. Enough now to take care of yourself and the new baby on the way.

    All the best in whatever you decide ... afin

    Now I just may lose my lunch.

    Josie

  • gringojj
    gringojj

    Dear A friend in need,

    You are one of Jehovas Witnesses? Are you baptised? I thought this place was all ex-jws. If I were baptised I would not come to this site. What do the elders think of you being on a site like this? Anyways did you see the poem that she gave me? What do you think about all the crazy stuff the WTS does and says? Please tell me because I need to find the truth. My husband showed me a bunch of quotes from the creation book that the WTS took out of context. We researched them from the original articles and I must say I was really disturbed by what we found. If the WTS tells us only to believe in what they write, to trust them because they are the truth, then how do I justify believing anything they write if they blatantly take quotes out of context to support thier teachings? I am really disturbed by this can you please help me?

  • gringojj
    gringojj

    And I have another question A friend in need. You said that my study partner is just doing what she feels is best. She is doing what the elders have told her to do. And the WTS being a theocracy, meaning directed by god, in a trickle down sort of way the orders from the elders are to be treated as coming from god himself. The WTS teaches to disobey then is to disobey Jehovah. I think this is the theme for this years assembly. So by you saying that it might not be the right thing, arent you saying that the elders, and therefore Jehovah is wrong? Are'nt you an apostate for not agreeing with what they say? Between being on this board and speaking out agains the WTS, how are you not an apostate?

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    close to it

  • a friend in need
    a friend in need

    I have a suspicion I am really addressing Mr. gringojj here, so will be brief. The society advises the members to use the internet cautiously. When I replied, I assumed I was addressing your wife, who is still studying with Jehovah's Witnesses. My advice was for her, thus, a Christian stance.

    As for your questions, please feel free to ask any elder in your wife's congregation. If they refuse to answer, I guess it's because they feel you are apostate.

    I do in fact wish your wife all the best and hope she makes a favourable decision ... afin

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5


    that's funny....why would he be suspious of talking to the husband? and read what he says MrG, he's trying to get to your wife by getting around you.

  • a friend in need
    a friend in need

    Do keep apace, Mrs Jones. Previously, I was addressing Mrs grongojj, so when I realized gringojj was pretending to be her, it was in fact deceptive of him. Get it???

  • gringojj
    gringojj

    My husband can never be an apostate because he was never baptised. The elders have told me not to go on any website except the official JW one. But I am not baptised and I am researching all things right now. A friend in need I understand you have a Christian standpoint. I just need someone to help me makes sense of things. You are on this board so you must know about the misquotations. How can I justify that in my mind? How do you do it? Please help me I really need to know how you do it.

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