I watched a show recently about a woman who knew she was dying. She wrote a diary and also made yearly videos for her young child to remember her by. She would write things about what the child did at what age, how she reacted, their relationship... But she also put in many lifes lessons, being a mom who loved her child dearly and wanted to do her best to try and raise her child, even when she was gone, with proper aspect of life and its lessons.
One thing the JW's did for me is to be able to apply analagies. Yep, here is one now. Compare that diary and the videos to the Bible. Does that child have to read the diary and view the tapes every day? IMO, that child does not have to. That child has been taught by the mom, led by her words. That child has mom with him/her everyday in their thoughts. Just because that child does not pull out the diary and the tapes every day does not mean that they have left their love for their mom. That child will occasionally pull them out and read and watch these again and again in their lives.
As this child grows and comes across things in their life they will remember things written in mom's diary and remember what mom said in her tapes. When the child is faced with decisions things, things that mom said would come back to them and help guide them. When something humorous happens they may chuckle because they remember something mom wrote or taped. When they have children of their own they can look back and remember by mom's words what to expect.
I could go on forever. My point is, just because someone does not read the Bible anymore/often, or does not go to the Hall anymore, is not the same as leaving love for God. Not all still believe in God, some don't know, and some feel even closer to God since leaving. We are all different. If you remember, the Bible does say "as for Jehovah, he sees what the heart is." (1 Sam. 16:7)
I will close this with quotes from Luke 6:37,38:
(37) "Moreover, stop judging, and you will by no means be judged:..."
(38) "...For the measure that you are measuring out, they will measure out to you in return."