Jeff:
I can't tell you how many times I would shake my head in disgust at the things an elder body put into these letters when families would
move in. I remember one brother who moved in who had served as the PO of his cong. in the Northeast for almost 30 years, raised a family,
used responsibly at the circuit level. At 62 he was burned out. He was moving to our area with a warmer climate and lower taxes, etc.... and
had told his body that he would be busy with his move and wouldn't be available for any responsibilities. Well, his house took longer to sell
than he anticipated and he hung around almost a year "doing nothing." (words directly from the letter) Long story short, they wrote that this man,
whom we had never laid eyes on, "was a drunk, did not preside over his household in a fine manner (because his wife was in our area and he was still
looking after the house and working), and was doing nothing in the congregation in the way of helping the other brothers lighten their load of work." They did not recommend him.
I was appalled, frankly ashamed, that I was even privy to hearing these things about someone I hadn't even met. And when I did meet him and have dinner with him and go in service
with him and spoke with his wife, what did I learn about him? He was kind, humble, unpretentious, smart as a whip, a great dad and grandfather, a loyal husband.
He is the kind of man you want as a minister of others. As an elder and a JW all my life I can tell you sincerely, that some of the worst moments of my life were
spent in elder's meetings. I would go home and feel a huge weight on chest. I'd be stressed. I felt so WRONG about what was done, I felt so ashamed of
how cavalierly elder's would talk about the pubs., and how they would discuss the details of a person's intimate affairs. I thought it was just human failing. Now I know better.
It was Satan transforming himself into an angel light. God's spirit is no where to be found in a meeting of a body of Jehovah's Witness elders. I seriously doubt their prayers reach the
ceiling of their meeting room, let alone heaven.