The WTS view on all things sexual is unhealthy. I often thought this view originated with the patriachal society of the near east in which female virginity was prized for it
made daughters marrriageable; and a marriageable daughter was valueable to the OWNER, dear old Dad. This fits hand in glove with the Levitical Law of marrying any virgin that a man takes and PAYING the father the bride price. It was more a matter of economics and property and pride.
Waiting until one is ready for sex, when one has some maturity, say out of high school at least, is not a bad idea. I think it is a good idea. Punishment, however, WTS style
is definitely more detrimental then the failing of the human of the human being.
Also, what of two grwon people, both either widowed or divorced who simply do not want the tether of marriage but enjoy the company of one another and the occasional
romp. I think that is best left to the individual. I say it is all about control over women .