I asked my husband for a divorce yesterday.
Maybe this is the source of your difficulty. Why are you asking?
If you want a divorce, go get one. You don't need to give advance notification, you don't need permission.
Wishing you the best,
Nina
i asked my husband for a divorce yesterday.
after he threw a plate full of food and a cup of coffee it went pretty well, especially after he left, but came back four hrs.
i have pretty hard questions i need your help with ,the first is what do i say when he keeps telling me that he leaves me alone a jws?
I asked my husband for a divorce yesterday.
Maybe this is the source of your difficulty. Why are you asking?
If you want a divorce, go get one. You don't need to give advance notification, you don't need permission.
Wishing you the best,
Nina
Aliens are in charge of the U.S. government and they communicated with Russell using the Bible?
Nina (who didn't click on the link provided, instead made up her own story based on rumors and speculation)
http://www.allaboutvision.com/conditions/spotsfloats.htm
Most of the information I've seen on this topic says "see your doctor immediately".
Nina
about a few days ago i went to hand in my final paper at a university in manhattan.
i won't go into details about the school because i want to keep it to a certain extent personal.
there is this professor that is 38years old but he looks like he is 26 years old.
Report him NOW to the Dean of Students, to the Dean of his Department, to (your school's version of the) Office of Institutional Equity, and to someone in the Counseling Dept. if your school has one. Put it in writing. Add to it that you do not want the information released publicly.
The NOW is so that he can't mess with your grade.
These things happen routinely. Don't feel that you will be blighting your name by reporting him. You will be saving your neck!
Nina
i?m due soon for a shepherding call from my congregation elders for a variety of reasons: being irregular in service, s poradically attending meetings, and o h yes, writing in a letter to the society asking for clarifications on the blood ban.
i?m sure that one question that they will be asking me is: d
o you believe that jehovah is using the organization as his only approved channel of communication?
a regional or social variety of a language distinguished by pronunciation, grammar, or vocabulary, especially a variety of speech differing from the standard literary language or speech pattern of the culture in which it exists: cockney is a dialect of english.
this is one of the definitions for dialect that i found at dictionary.com.
i think ebonics fits the profile of this definition.
When I was growing up my mother wouldn't let me speak anything except Standard English. It was a crusade with her. When I was less than four years old she taught me to repeat things like "Do you enunciate and articulate correctly?" Try saying that aloud, perfectly, right now. She didn't let me say things like "how 'bout a kiss?" (a popular expression when she was a teen) although she might say it herself. I had to say "Would you like to participate in an osculatory display?" Imagine a little kid coming out with an expression like that! I never used slang. I seldom used contractions. I was not allowed to associate with other children of my age and cultural background. I honestly didn't know that my background was the same as theirs. I grew up viewing people of "my own" as "different". BTW, this was all pre-JW days. No one in my family has ever been a JW, that came later and involved only me!
When I finished high school it was easy to find a job. I talked the talk! Again, I had no idea that I was different. I moved from childhood into adulthood never perceiving that other people had, as part of their personal repertoire, something "more".
I married "out of my class". That's when I started to notice that something was going on. Since I didn't know that there were other ways to "be" I married a person from another cultural/ethnic group thinking that we were "just the same". Of course in some senses we were, but I didn't comprehend that just because we were both raised to speak Standard English that there were other phenomena lurking in the background. One of us was "dirt poor", one of us was "rich". One was one "color", one was another. One set of relatives was prejudiced, so was the other but with a different set of prejudices! When his mother refused to let me ride in her car I knew I was up against something I had only heard about in the past. I blame quite a number of his problems as well as the eventual demise of our marriage on a failure to recognize valid cultural differences as well as an abysmal lack of human respect.
I lived solely in a world of Standard English speakers. Becoming involved with JW's was another adventure into a world of Standard English. Again, I thought it was the only way to speak, so the "friendship" offered seemed wonderful to me. I did not perceive that they were using the word "friend" in a marginal way. I had no way to apprehend that the Witness definition of "friendship" was different than mine. I knew only one way to live and to speak.
Standard English is designed to conduct business. It's a trade language. No one, and I repeat, no one comes from a culture where Standard English is the native tongue. Standard English designed for use by people who are assuming a role in a transaction. When the transaction is complete they exit that role. When they act in their personal lives they are free to choose either Standard English or some dialect, theirs or another they have learned along their way. To use anything other than Standard English in corporate professional life is counterproductive. To use a dialect may win a sale or influence a deal but it is used therein as a tool and not as true communication.
Over the years I have learned a lot about language. I?ve learned about dialects as well. I?ve learned that going back and attempting to integrate into one?s birth "culture" does not produce the same result as growing up within that group. There is no communal experience, thus I have no "roots".
I wish that I had known long ago that Standard English is part of an educational process. To be educated does not mean giving up who you are or where you come from. Education is meant to enhance, not to replace. In addition to providing instruction in Standard English perhaps it is also necessary to define its role. Presuming that this is universally understood can be the source of much miscommunication.
Nina
she is located in portland oregon.
she is married i don't now her new last name, she left the organization about 5 years ago.
Offense is not the issue here, it's a matter of personal security.
Nina
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just wondering what experiences you good folks have had with the the famous (or infamous)?
AlanF wrote:
I speak to God all the time and he answers back.
Does He speak in the first, second, or third person?
can you imagine certain ones making it out of the religion, somehow, sometime?
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If I can be out, aaaaaaaaaaaanybody can leave. Let it happen on its own.
Nina
she is located in portland oregon.
she is married i don't now her new last name, she left the organization about 5 years ago.
pudin-head wrote:
I am know Emily...
Which is it? You are or you know?
Either way, why don't you PM your contact information instead of requesting personally identifiable information from another poster?
Nina