Hi Scully,
I am surprised that your father didn't react the way Caleb did toward his daughter. Judges 1:14-15 (New English Bible) says: "As she sat on the ass, she broke wind, and Caleb said, 'What did you mean by that?' She replied, 'I want to ask a favour of you. You have put me in this dry Negeb; you must give me pools of water as well.' So Caleb gave her the upper pool and the lower pool."
You might want to show your father these verses and maybe he will give you an new swimming pool like Caleb did for his daughter when she broke wind.
Sincerely,
Athanasius