Personally I don't there is one--because anytime you get a group of people together who think "their" way is the "only" way, then problems arise. Be it abuse of power, sexual, mental, physical or any other type of abuse--something goes wrong. I really appreciate Kenpo's line of reasoning, because if anyone can't see the diversity in nature then they are truly "blind".
And besides, the way I've put it into perspective lately is this--how many of you who are parents would KILL your own children for doing some things you don't personally agree with? That's what we claim to follow in most religions today (especially Christianity). However you look at it, if you don't agree with something then you will die by your own loving?! Father. Does that make any sense? Not in my mind!
Becky