Topics Started by smily
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13Impossible Situation?Of Course it did not work!
by smily inso i agreed to have a look at all this jw stuff just to save our relationship and after all that iam still not good enough!
well iam sure this is not a surprise to all you wise people here but i still dont understand....i never did think love conquered all...but ....he feels that as he is having doubts it must be wrong..i asked him what was more important-what i believed in or who i really was as a person?
he said i just dont understand...of course it was most important what i believed in and he cannot see himself living his life with anyone who is not fully in the truth!
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Impossible situation! Can it ever work?
by smily inwell, things have moved on...my jw man has been agonizing over whether he should be seeing me or not?!
if i was a jw it would all be different?!
is that not like saying if i was not "black,american,german,white ect" surely this is racism of some kind?
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In need of some material
by smily ini have ordered several of the books that people have advised me to read and have been to the many websites and iam reading as fast as i can!
i read somewhere there is a version of the bible that you can discuss with jw's could somebody let me know what this is?
where is it best to start reading?
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Help He has been reinstated and Iam lost!
by smily inhe has been reinstated and only just told me because he felt i could not understand!
he says he is living 2 lives, 1 with me and his non witness friends and 1 with his jw's.
he says he loves me but i dont understand?
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Is it really that difficult to leave?
by smily inmy friend is a jw born and raised and has been disfellowshiped.he is unsure if he wants to go back or not but it seems to be such a heart wrenching decison which as a non-jw iam having alot of trouble understanding!
he still goes to meetings and seems to have alot of trouble letting go...i have met alot of his friends and he does not seem to hide me away although he is careful to only see me at certain times.. iam afraid to encourage him to leave as it seems so difficult.i know he feels he would be letting alot of people down but he already does alot he should not like drinking and sports...and seeing me?!.
is it really so difficult?.
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Non JW with JW friend..so many questions some help is needed...
by smily ini have a friend who is a df'd jw.
he says he wants to get reinstated although he seems unsure about this.all his family and most of his friends are jw's.he has asked me out on several occassions and then has changed his mind.i know he cares about me and wants to be better friends at the very least.i would like to talk to him about these things but whenever i try it seems to go all wrong!
i care about this man and cannot give up on him.i have tried reading up on jw's but there are some many rules and regulations.
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