I am too am "inlove" with a JW, he was DA because we had prematial sex, but now he wants to go back. I did not know much about JW's and thought it would pretty much like any other religion, but with different beliefs and some non association with the world. So I encouraged him to go back, even supported him. Boy was I wrong. I started studying and looking things up on the internet and WOW were my eyes opened. I wish I had checked out the beliefs and org. long before we were married. He got DA becasue of me, and I think I could have shown him many things about JW's at that time. But now that we are married, he is free to seek reinstatment and does not feel like he needs to listen to me, because I have already married him. We are still trying to work things out. I know I can never ever be a JW on any level, but I fear for the well being of my husband. They are so hard on the men and we will not have our own marriage. It will be the Me, My Husband and The WatchTower.
My husband is the most amazing man, but when it comes to this he is brain washed. I don't want him hurt anymore by their lies.
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I found this article called "I'm in Love With a Jehovah's Witness!" by Timothy Campbell. It helped me.