Posts by luvbug2007

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Visit on fader, is that a return visit?

by Paralipomenon in

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hey all, new member to the board.

my dad recently sic'd an old elder from our assigned hall on us and he's been calling quite frequently.

i'm a complete fade for the past 10 years, my wife is a reluctant fader.

luvbug2007

Thank you Scully, I am printing the sign now. They annoy the $hit out of us, I dont even answer they keep coming. So I rip the crap up and put it in a ziplock bag and tap it to my front door.

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How Often Do You Pray?

by Anitar in

i know this might sound silly, but one of the most annoying things i find about my mom being a jw is how often she prays.

normally, i would never criticize someone for praying to god, but she prays in such a way that makes me angry for some reason.

let me explain:.

sex abuse of wives

by J-ex-W in

okay--i think i've got it this time.

i want to start this thread, but my relevant postings are already under child sex abuse "cary verse arrested again" and under friends "sex abuse of wives" as well as scandals and cover-ups "psychopath murderer"-something.

please, if you are interested, read those postings then continue the thread by replying here (under scandals and cover-ups).

luvbug2007

The one and only jw i dated that i mentioned in my story was 27 and i was 18. He forced me to have sex with him or he would tell the elders and my family things about me. He said he would also go to my place of work and post "naked pics" of me all over the windows. Even though they would have be fake lies and fake pics, I still belived him.

It is sick and sad what happens behind closed doors. I have always said Jws have two faces, their kingdumb hall face and their home face.

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Any Freewill Baptists?

by Junction-Guy in

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i attend a fwb church up in kentucky with my non-jw family.

i really enjoy the church and the people.

am i the only xjw freewill baptist?

luvbug2007

When i was in the 6th grade and a jw but not babtised, I went to church with one of my friends from school. A "wordly girl" and I went to her chruch, If felt like jw himself was going to strike me down! And i felt so dirty and awful for the longest time! But now I could give two hoots.

the last church i went to was Dec 2002 and that was my last meeting with the dubs. have not set foot in a church since, not even to get married.

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What bible verse would you change?

by Abandoned in

what if the bible were a wiki project where all readers could make their own changes?

what verse would you change?

i would change matthew 5:9 "happy are the peacemakers, for they shall get a piece be called the children of god.

luvbug2007

well its one my mom changed..the one about spare the rod spoil the child..

My mom would quote while she beat me"Use the rod beat the child" lol..kind of morbid huh..At least I can laugh about it now..

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What do you want for Christmas this year?

by restrangled in

i would like some new perfume, to lose 10 more pounds and get new kitchen counters, how about you?????.

r..

luvbug2007

All I want is for my hubbys mom, who is dying to stay free of pain. I also hope my new niece, on my hubbys side, survies the next year. She was very sick and mom had to give birth early due to rh blood factors, and due to being born early lungs were under developed. And has a strawberry birthmark on her nose and is taking a high dose of steroids.

Inactive: Good luck on the baby making

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2006 WorldWide Service Report

by Midget-Sasquatch in

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here it is scanned straight from the feb 1 2007 wt:.

http://img174.imageshack.us/img174/5103/rep01dc4.jpg.

http://img174.imageshack.us/img174/3761/rep02xh5.jpg.

luvbug2007

I have offten wondered if they fix the numbers, just to seem as if they are growing when in fact more are leaving than coming in....

I knew a replacement for the one of the 144.000 hes in his 40s. So i agree at this rate the end will never come!

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Here's my latest poem

by Abandoned in

i worked this morning and on my break i felt inspired.

let me know what you think.. the real life.

terrified of friendship's bite,.

luvbug2007

I use to write poetry, but most of mine was really dark, this was while I was still in the borg. Now its kind of like a diff person writting.

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Transgender - A Case of Tested Friendship

by Amazing in

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friendship comes in all stages, shapes, and sizes, from the very close, as brothers, built over a lifetime, to the budding kind that has only a few months or a year or two.

i have been friends with sam (fictious name) for about seven years.

we are not real close friends, but have a good quality relationship that is mostly confined to the office.. recently, sam told me that he had an issue with a female agent who tried to get him fired.

luvbug2007

I would think the society would view it as a homosexual relationship? And therefor would not be able to get babtised

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2alcholicparents:$$$ 1jwabusivemother:$# Being screwed up for life:priceles

by luvbug2007 in

my story is simple really.. sorry its kida long.

mother was dfd in 1975, during this time we were free to celebrate all holidays.

during this time were were livng overseas, where my grandparents were missionaries.

luvbug2007

My story is simple really.. Sorry its kida long

Mother was dfd in 1975, during this time we were free to celebrate all holidays. During this time were were livng overseas, where my grandparents were missionaries. They left soon after my my mothers dfing and came back to the states. They rarely had contact with her while she was "rebelling" and not going to meetings to redem herself to the elders. During this time she meet her second hubby my dad, they both were drunks and would beat on eachother, and they both cheated on eachother.

Flash fowared 1991 we came to the states, and life as i knew it was over. That was the last holidays we would celebrate. My mother started dragging us to meetings, my father would not go, he had other things he had to do.. Like inviting other women over while we were out being bored out of our minds. They still drank a lot and still beat on eachother. I even remember them taking my savings (piggy bank) to by drinks and cigs for them. Even though the rent was past due and there was no food.

1993 dad ships all of us including our mother to Missouri to live with her folks. Parents get divorced, never see dada again. This is pure HELL! She was reinstated in 1993 and welcomed back in to the family. Much of my time as a child is blacked out, for good reason I assume. During this time, my mother really started to abuse me. Out of 4 kids she picked me out. She would beat me with anyting handy from high heel shoes to belt buckles to fly swater to bear hand on bear bum. She even would bunch me in the face with her guady rings.She punched me so hard once he opened up my eye, i had to get stiches. I would be laying on the floor and out of no where she would command my younger sister to kick me on my back. She would also beat me in my ears, and as a result i am partially deaf in one ear. She also threw me down stairs, as well as threw a whole container of sharp knives at me. This went on and got worse for many years till i left hom at 18. The elders knew about this, and when they apprroaced me a few years back about why I left this was no. 1 on my list, that they knew about that abuse..You know what they said!! That they did not and even if they did they could not do anything about it, because they would be coming in between family.

She was dfd again cause she let a married man move in her house, she cared more about him and his child than her own. It was sick he was very improper with me, and it took my bf at the time (not a jw) to put him in his place. finally i had enough and left home.

She was reinsated again but does not attend but still claims to follow. None of her kids talk to her. My aunt and granny are sill devout jws. And look down upon me for marying out of the jw religion. I dated a jw just before I left, he was a psyco and stalked me. We were close to getting married when we broke up. And when we broke up my aunt finally confessed that he had harresed another jw women to the point she had to move and change her name. And that he was abusive. When i asked why she did not tell me this while we were dating she said it would be gossiping. Holy hell, I could have married him and she (they) would have just watched and withheld.

I will add more later, sorry if its to much.