I would not give it to her but tell her that you gave it to a poor person on the street, and do that. Then give her a scripture to hand to the brother
1 Tim 5:8 Certainly if anyone does not provide for those who are his own, and especially for those who are members of his household, he has disowned the faith and is worse than a person without faith.
Then tell her that this Bethel life is not scripturally supported, living off others and tell your parents that you would give to them in a heart beat but not to this.
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